Honda
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I am currently speaking from the mindset of someone that went through perhaps the worst year of my life... After attempting failed suicide several times this year; getting ripped off by a therapist... Facing a horrible dip in my career, finance, family relations and a lack of social circles; I have started studying about social phobia and thinking deeply about my problems..
I realized the following:
This social phobia and depression disorders are a great excuse for someone to simply give up on working hard to get somewhere in life... Yes I was loser and a coward for most of my life for many reasons; perhaps I was unlucky but the fact I did not push hard enough on myself is the reason for that which of course I used to deny but saying its not fair, I was born to live a crappy life, I am a loser, etc..
Therapy, medication, treatment, disorders; they are just a myth and an excuse to make weak or devastated people even more devastated in-order for psychiatry industry to take advantage of those people.. I will never want to go to a doctor anymore and would rather slap some sense into myself instead..
So here is my message to you:
"You are a ****ing coward and a wuss... People laugh at you because you are an awkward loser and your insecurities show in the way you walk, talk, think or act.. That's why they avoid you.. Nobody wants to hang out with a person coming out of weakness or insecurity; they want to hang out with confident and inspiring individuals... Nobody likes *******s as much as they dont like losers...
You will never get a decent social circle, genuine career or even get laid because you always will sit there running away from the truth trying to rationalize your setbacks with excuses like social phobia or life being not fair...
Well guess what!! The rest of the world will get the success and happiness they want in life because they are striving for it instead of just sitting there waiting for it..
Of course there are exceptions.. Though in our situation, many of us are just shocked, frustrated and confused people for reasons we never know but if we sit there and wait for others to fix it for us; it will never happen!!
I have realized that dwelling in my depression did not get me anywhere; now its time to do the things 'I dont enjoy doing' and fill my head with 'thoughts I dont really like' instead of living in a cage of denial.."
In the 3rd world people have to worry about feeding themselves; you think they would want to waste their time thinking about their frustration, pain, insecurities and fears?? No they don't; they would rather go find some crappy job to keep themselves alive...
I realized the following:
This social phobia and depression disorders are a great excuse for someone to simply give up on working hard to get somewhere in life... Yes I was loser and a coward for most of my life for many reasons; perhaps I was unlucky but the fact I did not push hard enough on myself is the reason for that which of course I used to deny but saying its not fair, I was born to live a crappy life, I am a loser, etc..
Therapy, medication, treatment, disorders; they are just a myth and an excuse to make weak or devastated people even more devastated in-order for psychiatry industry to take advantage of those people.. I will never want to go to a doctor anymore and would rather slap some sense into myself instead..
So here is my message to you:
"You are a ****ing coward and a wuss... People laugh at you because you are an awkward loser and your insecurities show in the way you walk, talk, think or act.. That's why they avoid you.. Nobody wants to hang out with a person coming out of weakness or insecurity; they want to hang out with confident and inspiring individuals... Nobody likes *******s as much as they dont like losers...
You will never get a decent social circle, genuine career or even get laid because you always will sit there running away from the truth trying to rationalize your setbacks with excuses like social phobia or life being not fair...
Well guess what!! The rest of the world will get the success and happiness they want in life because they are striving for it instead of just sitting there waiting for it..
Of course there are exceptions.. Though in our situation, many of us are just shocked, frustrated and confused people for reasons we never know but if we sit there and wait for others to fix it for us; it will never happen!!
I have realized that dwelling in my depression did not get me anywhere; now its time to do the things 'I dont enjoy doing' and fill my head with 'thoughts I dont really like' instead of living in a cage of denial.."
In the 3rd world people have to worry about feeding themselves; you think they would want to waste their time thinking about their frustration, pain, insecurities and fears?? No they don't; they would rather go find some crappy job to keep themselves alive...
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