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I've had problems with the younger generations of women for years. I have been trying to gain help from the website and try to eliminate the problem, but that's not exactly working in terms of taming fear.
I haven't told many of the other users all the sources of the problem, but after yesterday, the issue has been amplified.
After visiting subway, one of the female cashiers gave me a very threatening look after making eye contact with her, and that was before I even spoke to her.
I didn't make any offensive hand gestures, facial expressions, or anything of the sort, and she still looked at me as if she was ready to pound me with insults.
I was rather nervous, and ready to call 911.
The psychological problem I'm having (involving women) is caused from multiple things, such as;
Watching my dad, other male family members, friends, and co-workers being abused by their women (verbally and physically).
As for me, since I wasn't in a relationship with any of them, they decided to do the next best thing-
In school (middle and high school), they bullied me (calling me names, pushing me, spreading negative rumors about me, and physically harming me on occasions). At times they also had their boyfriends come in to help them out.
I had to hang around the security guards and teachers, along with the police officer who was at school. Though I was capable of defending myself, I didn't want to resort to physical violence.
Basically, I was a popular target for the girls, despite being male. They had the most fun attacking me.
The women (25 and over) were nice to me, but the other ones...were so cruel that it would make your head spin.
After graduating, I thought that it would be over.
But nope, they still keep it up. Despite being 21, they stalk me when they're not at school.
These particular girls don't know who I am, yet they still try to attack me.
I feel like calling 911 when I spot them in public (after they see me), and the only time I feel comfortable (when they're present) is when a police officer is in the area.
On nature trails, avoiding them is relatively easy (hiding in bushes, ponds, or hanging around poisonous snakes).
I also manage to escape them once I get to my town home complex, and get inside my house.
They wouldn't stay there for hours waiting for me to come out, nor would they risk staying in a place where the cops could easily track them down and arrest them.
Oddly enough, only the younger women target me. The ones above their age leave me alone.
So, do you guys know how I can tame my fear of this? I'm already working out to build my upper body, and I might take a martial arts class in the future.
But I don't want to have to resort to that kind of self-defense when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex.
What should I do?
@Staff members
If this turns into a flame war, can you lock or delete this thread? I don't want people to fight about this subject.
I haven't told many of the other users all the sources of the problem, but after yesterday, the issue has been amplified.
After visiting subway, one of the female cashiers gave me a very threatening look after making eye contact with her, and that was before I even spoke to her.
I didn't make any offensive hand gestures, facial expressions, or anything of the sort, and she still looked at me as if she was ready to pound me with insults.
I was rather nervous, and ready to call 911.
The psychological problem I'm having (involving women) is caused from multiple things, such as;
Watching my dad, other male family members, friends, and co-workers being abused by their women (verbally and physically).
As for me, since I wasn't in a relationship with any of them, they decided to do the next best thing-
In school (middle and high school), they bullied me (calling me names, pushing me, spreading negative rumors about me, and physically harming me on occasions). At times they also had their boyfriends come in to help them out.
I had to hang around the security guards and teachers, along with the police officer who was at school. Though I was capable of defending myself, I didn't want to resort to physical violence.
Basically, I was a popular target for the girls, despite being male. They had the most fun attacking me.
The women (25 and over) were nice to me, but the other ones...were so cruel that it would make your head spin.
After graduating, I thought that it would be over.
But nope, they still keep it up. Despite being 21, they stalk me when they're not at school.
These particular girls don't know who I am, yet they still try to attack me.
I feel like calling 911 when I spot them in public (after they see me), and the only time I feel comfortable (when they're present) is when a police officer is in the area.
On nature trails, avoiding them is relatively easy (hiding in bushes, ponds, or hanging around poisonous snakes).
I also manage to escape them once I get to my town home complex, and get inside my house.
They wouldn't stay there for hours waiting for me to come out, nor would they risk staying in a place where the cops could easily track them down and arrest them.
Oddly enough, only the younger women target me. The ones above their age leave me alone.
So, do you guys know how I can tame my fear of this? I'm already working out to build my upper body, and I might take a martial arts class in the future.
But I don't want to have to resort to that kind of self-defense when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex.
What should I do?
@Staff members
If this turns into a flame war, can you lock or delete this thread? I don't want people to fight about this subject.
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