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When one of our number talks about having been clubbing, does anyone here find it offensive, depressing, unhelpful, etc.?
Honestly, it'd make me chuckle... because the vast majority of the non-social-phobic, very social people I know don't go clubbing and would likely find it uncomfortable. The idea of a social phobic out clubbing is funny.
On the other hand, everybody has their own set of goals and norms and you have as much right to post here as anyone else. I know some people push themselves to do extremely extroverted, extremely social things like that as part of trying to deal with their social anxiety. I doubt you'll get any useful clubbing advice at a forum like this, but you're free to try, it's not offensive or depressing -- merely a little amusing.
People like that guy who get offended by other people's lives are just expressing their personal misery in terms of anger at any available target, it really has nothing to do with you.