I understand how you're feeling, it must be frustrating to see other people having fun, going out, having friends when you don't. But that doesn't mean these people don't have SA. I also go out sometimes in a bar, because I can meet the people I know. But that doesn't mean I'm not feeling anxious in these places. I'm surrounded by a lot of people I don't know, sometime they begin to talk to me... I just feel horrible in these moments. I guess Satine and other people that go out are feeling exactly the same. SA is not about necesseraly about the fact of going out or not, but more about how you feel the anxiety and the impact it has on your social life.
And honestly, I haven't seen any offensive post from Satine, I have more the feeling she's just trying to help. About the fact she goes out, it's even positive for people in this forum, people can ask her advices on how to go out, how to decrease their anxiety in situations like this.
Anyway, PM me if you want to continue this discussion, we are in the wrong thread for that .