Crush?
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Looking_in105
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- having butterflies feeling in stomach when you think about them/near them
- feel more energised around them and want to impress them
- makes you smile when you think about them
- feel more energised around them and want to impress them
- makes you smile when you think about them
vj288
not actually Fiona Apple
This is the biggest indicator I think. And wanting to be around them so you never stop.
just wanna b normal
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yeah when you think about it crush dont really mean a thing unless you take action & turn that crush into love! yeah it hurts when you see the person you had a crush on with someone else!
Hm, a 'crush' is something that doesn't necessarily have to go anywhere, you just like seeing a certain person, you can know they would be totally wrong for you, but you still like them and are happy to see them etc.
Sometimes you want to be near them, sometimes you want to avoid...
A crush can be mutual and may not lead anywhere...
Sometimes you see them everywhere even though you wanted to avoid (or hoped to see them
) 'Synchronicity' - sometimes...
A crush is more fun than the 'unrequited love' part... It's basically before you know it's unrequited lol.. Or when you still think, hey maybe it's possible..
It's quite funny, sometimes... People can trip on stairs, or fall off a bicycle or do silly things... Looking back, it can be really funny...
Sometimes you want to be near them, sometimes you want to avoid...
A crush can be mutual and may not lead anywhere...
Sometimes you see them everywhere even though you wanted to avoid (or hoped to see them
) 'Synchronicity' - sometimes... A crush is more fun than the 'unrequited love' part... It's basically before you know it's unrequited lol.. Or when you still think, hey maybe it's possible..
It's quite funny, sometimes... People can trip on stairs, or fall off a bicycle or do silly things... Looking back, it can be really funny...
coyote
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it typically involves blood rushing to certain parts of my body
I really don't know. Seems robotic, I know, but I am kind of new to allowing emotions. Denying them is not the answer.
I'd have to say the chief emotion felt is confusion.
I'd have to say the chief emotion felt is confusion.
Kiwong
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The word it brings back bad memories of the last person I truly fell for. At the time I tried to explain it away as an adolescent crush, but I think it was more than that, I think I actually loved her, but it was unrequited and ended badly, and has contributed to the anxiety I suffer from today. This was ten years ago. I can't even entertain the thought of developing crushes anymore.
