Would You Have A Relationship With A Guy Like This?

Foxface

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Someone who is genuine, loyal, honest and funny. He's 23 and has a car (Toyota Yaris). He is adventures, loving, but very shy at first. He is outgoing and loves to go hiking, driving, GeoCaching and exploring. He is a big fan of The Hunger Games, and is good with computers.

He is a naturist, which means that he likes to spend most time nude, but it isn't sexual in nature.

The downside is that, he has Asperger's, Syndrome, often misunderstood, lacking social/communication skills and hardly has any friends. He's communication skills aren't bad, if you met him on the street, you'd never know he has any disabilities. His speaks for most of the time. He is NOT handicapped. He does get along with his family. He can get a long with most people fine. Speaks with an British/Australian accent at times. He can have a silly, random personality when he is in good spirits. He is sensitive with some things and can be overwhelmed by big changes.

He doesn’t like crowds, he doesn’t fit in with most people, because he is generally either not accepted or misjudged. He is not into partying, drinking, drugs, fancy cars etc.
He is leverage size, except a little little chubby, but not a lot. He has dark, short hair and is 5 ft 4in.

He prefers someone that is like or similar to him, someone who is genuine, honest, loyal, caring etc. Someone who doesn’t judge and understands him and someone who is there for him. He has never been in a relationship before. He prefers to wait until marriage to shag.

Because of his lack of social skills, he can sometimes not know what to and what not say. He DOES understand a lot and get understand the meaning of things like jokes, innuendo, sarcasm etc. Many people with Autism can't. Due to his disability to fully understand how he says things, he can sometimes sound cold or not caring, but he does not mean to, nor is that his intention. He means well, and he never says anything to intentionally hurt someone or sound mean.

Also, due to his lack of communication skills, he sometimes says the wrong words in sentences, so it doesn’t make sense. He knows when this happens, it has to do with his his brain processes information. He wears glasses, usually for driving.

For the past couple of years, he has gotten a frequent amount of canker sores on his tongue, which is really painful and bothersome to him. He will have one or two, for usually a week, and after a few days, it will get sore again. This prevents him from getting a job, as he we need to spent most of his time off. Until this is a cure for the canker sores.
 

Nathália

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Very descriptive, but I don't see anything wrong with this person from the information given and why this person does not deserve a chance to be with someone. Those small things seem like nothing. I'm careful about relationships, but I wouldn't judge someone because of those things and hopefully you'll find someone to look past that. It is possible. Nothing is wrong about you, from what I gather and I know there's someone out there who could careless. Maybe I don't care about someone not being social because I'm not and many don't. Good luck to you Aspie.
 

Foxface

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Very descriptive, but I don't see anything wrong with this person from the information given and why this person does not deserve a chance to be with someone. Those small things seem like nothing. I'm careful about relationships, but I wouldn't judge someone because of those things and hopefully you'll find someone to look past that. It is possible. Nothing is wrong about you, from what I gather and I know there's someone out there who could careless. Maybe I don't care about someone not being social because I'm not and many don't. Good luck to you Aspie.

Thanks. I wish others could be the same. I live just outside of the city. My sister lives in the city, and I often drive into the city, and people there are usually worse. I find people are better out in the country life, away from the city, but even then, I have a hard to finding someone who dosen't judge and sees me as a waste of space.

I will keep trying. I spent 10 years trying, I won't let my past experinces bring me down. If I do, the curse wins.
 

Srijita52

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This person seems like a great guy to me. We all have some problems but I agree with Beleza, there's nothing wrong with you. I hope you find the person you're looking for soon. :) and you're definitely not a waste of space, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
 

Foxface

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This person seems like a great guy to me. We all have some problems but I agree with Beleza, there's nothing wrong with you. I hope you find the person you're looking for soon. :) and you're definitely not a waste of space, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Thanks, we need more people like you two. I'm posting this all over Facebook in the Questions/Answers things on pages and stuff, to see the results.Probably a little obsessive, but I'm desperate. if the girl of my dreams is out there, I'll find her. :)

I will not give up.
 

Silatuyok

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I think this guy sounds great from the description. But then again, many people do, and when it comes down to it I would have to know the guy's mannerisms and personality before I could judge whether or not I wanted to pursue a relationship with him.
 

Etbow23

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i would suggest leaving out the part about the canker sores

okay i'm sorry but that made me laugh lol

As for the OP, you sound like a very nice person but I would say insecure. If you want to attract a woman, you should be sure that you have positive qualities and characteristics that make you attractive. After all, being attractive isn't just about how you look.

As for whether I'd pursue a relationship with the person you described (which I guess is you) I'd say I'd have to agree with AbsolutelySweetMarie. I don't know you personally so I can't say whether or not I would just from the description.
 

Foxface

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i would suggest leaving out the part about the canker sores

I just want to up front, and it if I stand a chance, and how likely it is to find someone out there who can except me. I've had a hard life, and mostly just bad experinces, which is why I'm insecure. I'm been desperate to find someone for sometime.
 
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Foxface

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I think this guy sounds great from the description. But then again, many people do, and when it comes down to it I would have to know the guy's mannerisms and personality before I could judge whether or not I wanted to pursue a relationship with him.

Many people aren't honest and up front about themselves in a discription.
 

Silatuyok

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Many people aren't honest and up front about themselves in a discription.

I think, even more than that, most people describe themselves as they want to be, not necessarily as an objective representation of themselves. Even so, you can't put mannerisms and physical personality into a description.
 

Foxface

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I think, even more than that, most people describe themselves as they want to be, not necessarily as an objective representation of themselves. Even so, you can't put mannerisms and physical personality into a description.

No, which we go by what we read. If someone is obvouslt being honest and stuff. Saying things that people wouldn't normally say, it's says a bit. I'd go fhat over people they have lots of money and nice fast car etc any day.

It's rare to see someone honest and admit to things. This guy, admits to all his faults, to see if there is anyie compatible with him. He could lie and give a much better desciption, but he dosen't. He is a good speller, cares about proper capitaliations. I can see the respect when people write over lover case or write lIkE THiS.
 
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Foxface

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There are 3 or 4 people that say that they wouldn't mind being with me. (2 on this forum) Not a lot. It's nice to know I'm at least compatable with someone.
 

MrSunday

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I would totally date ya, even though I'm a guy. Here's my description:

1. Short Black hair
2. Height: 5'11 Weight: 14 stones
3. Build: muscular/chubby
4. Personality: quiet in real life but weird online
5. I can be very moody.
6. I hate parties and social gathering. It's like a mass gathering of sexually disturbed cockroaches.
7. I love politics.
8. I am very boring.

Yes, I'm a guy, despite my avatar who is a stuck up cow.

I'm not taking no for an answer.
 
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Foxface

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Erm is this a dating ad?

No. I just wanted to see people's opinions, to see if there are anyone out there is who accepts me and wouldn't mind being with me.

I would never post a dating add, as I could never get a date, unfotunately.
 
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