It's not always as easy as some people think to answer a post. I read posts regularly, and often have thoughts I consider writing...
But then I get scared that maybe what I have to say is stupid, irrelevant, or just simply too embarrassing. It does no good to tell myself that others experience the same feelings and thoughts, it just doesn't feel possible.
But then, that's why I read the posts. The more I read, the more relaxed I begin to feel, and capable of contributing. The problem for everyone else it would seem however, is that this takes time, and is not something that disappears after just one experience, or even two, three, or four...
I'm very sorry for those who feel frustrated or lonely by low responses. I don't know what to say other than to ask for patience for those of us who struggle a little more than perhaps others.
My silence is my fear getting the better of me, not a judgment upon anyone else.
ShiJai. :?