will I ever get laid?

[Kiwong]

yeah, I've heard others say similar things. I really hope that this is just a phase and I eventually stop caring about it so much. I mean, it never used to be a big deal. Perhaps it's a hormone thing. Right now I'm trying to look at developing my hobbies (music, art, working out). It's just my anxiety is so bad. I've been wanting to learn how to play piano and do digital art forever.

Play the piano and do digital, Catalyst, get lost in it, and you will be able to communicate that, even with women who appreciate the same things.

 

[Odo]

this thread is a great example of the enormous stigma against male virgins and depressed men... On a support forum for social phobia of all places. Who would've thought. It's people like (some of) you who are responsible for turning guys like Elliot Rodger into killing machines. I wonder if any of your kind feel remorse when your need for a temporary self-esteem boost and sense of belonging causes innocent people to die.

Just a thought.

So now everyone who suggests that you need to work on your attitude is a murderer?!

How can you possibly not know why people (on this forum and elsewhere) react the way they do to the 'real you'?

 

[Blueborn]

this thread is a great example of the enormous stigma against male virgins and depressed men... On a support forum for social phobia of all places. Who would've thought. It's people like (some of) you who are responsible for turning guys like Elliot Rodger into killing machines. I wonder if any of your kind feel remorse when your need for a temporary self-esteem boost and sense of belonging causes innocent people to die.

Just a thought.

Sorry to say, but you're leaving out some important background information on the guy, for example that he thought merely sitting around in a cafe could possibly get him a woman, and also never showed any sign of self reflection (aka. sociopathy) in his writings. Just to put your narrative into perspective a bit.

 

[GraybeardGhost]

All I can say is, the world doesn't revolve around you, so it's probably not a good idea to project all of your problems onto others. I can tell you are an extremely insecure and angry individual - that's about all we have in common. But for someone who claims to know so much about being adult, you have the mentality of an attention starved child. Quite pathetic for someone in their 30s. I hope one day you get better, if only for the sake of anyone unfortunate enough to have to deal with you. At least I know what I don't want to be like when I'm older. Don't bother replying to this because I won't be reading it. You aren't worth my time.

I have the right to defend myself from emotional vultures like yourself.

Also, considering that you're a woman, you don't really have much of a say in any of this. Women don't have to put any effort into relationships. For the most part, they get to sit there and judge whether a man is worthy or not. There's a desperate guy out there for every wench. Even you.

It's more than apparent that you came here seeking only validation of your bitter, misogynistic, blame-everyone-else view of life. When you failed to get it, you chose to start a brawl and paint yourself as the victim.

You have attacked nearly everyone who has dared to post in this thread, without provocation and with some of the most vicious, twisted, and just plain backward reasoning I've ever seen. You have abused and insulted many innocent members, members who, as I stated previously, were in most cases only trying to help you, despite the obvious futility of such efforts. Several of these are people whom I consider friends and for whom I have a great deal of respect, as do many others.

You have not been bullied on this forum, despite your claims, but you have done your best to bully everyone else. I believe most here will agree with me when I say that you have worn out your welcome. Please crawl back under your bridge, little troll. We'll get along fine without you.