Horatio
Well-known member
I'm 28 years old and haven't even been on a date in 4 years. Now that my depression and SA have come back and I've given up drinking I rarely even meet girls anymore.
Most my friends are either married or at least in very long term relationships and I feel like I'm left behind as I never ever even had the whole dating experience in my early 20's.
I'm thinking about deleting my dating profile as I'm lucky to get a message once every three months and nothing has ever come out of the several years I've paid for the service.
I've put on more weight, stopped buying new clothes and stopped using the nice cologne that I used to as none of that seemed to make any difference. Women just aren't attracted to who I am, neither physically or on any other level.
It pains me to ask this, but when should one just admit defeat and accept the fact that they will always be alone? I wonder if perhaps I could just accept that then maybe it wouldn't hurt so much. Maybe I should hold a private funeral of sorts for the love I never had and then try to move on with the rest of my life as a loner.
Sometimes I go months without even thinking about the fact I'm alone but then just when I think I'm fine with it I get the pangs of loneliness again and it eats away at me from the inside. The older I get the harder it becomes to convince myself that "one day it will be better".
Any advice?
Most my friends are either married or at least in very long term relationships and I feel like I'm left behind as I never ever even had the whole dating experience in my early 20's.
I'm thinking about deleting my dating profile as I'm lucky to get a message once every three months and nothing has ever come out of the several years I've paid for the service.
I've put on more weight, stopped buying new clothes and stopped using the nice cologne that I used to as none of that seemed to make any difference. Women just aren't attracted to who I am, neither physically or on any other level.
It pains me to ask this, but when should one just admit defeat and accept the fact that they will always be alone? I wonder if perhaps I could just accept that then maybe it wouldn't hurt so much. Maybe I should hold a private funeral of sorts for the love I never had and then try to move on with the rest of my life as a loner.
Sometimes I go months without even thinking about the fact I'm alone but then just when I think I'm fine with it I get the pangs of loneliness again and it eats away at me from the inside. The older I get the harder it becomes to convince myself that "one day it will be better".
Any advice?