iwanttogetbetter
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What's worse: no friends or no partner?
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caitlynx
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Hard question. Off the top of my head, I would probably say friends just because I'm most like my natural self with friends - but then I think I'd rather have a partner because with age it seems most everyone settles down and they have less time for their friends, which means I'm the one left behind.
SilverSorrow
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Having no partner is worse, for me. I want a partner more than anything.
It's always been an either/or thing. I can't have friends AND a partner. That's just too much socializing for me.
It's always been an either/or thing. I can't have friends AND a partner. That's just too much socializing for me.
Argamemnon
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Well said! I totally agree..Schmoo said:
Lotrsfan
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That's a tough question for me, but i think i'll go with Having no Friends is worse. Which i am suffering from right now. LOL The only friends, i have are 'online friends' but i guess you cannot call them really really friends because you can't go out with them and that.
Not having a partner is not really that bad, because i feel i'll be worrying all the time whether he's going out with someone else, someone outgoing and stuff.
Not having a partner is not really that bad, because i feel i'll be worrying all the time whether he's going out with someone else, someone outgoing and stuff.
NightTimeForever
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Pinker said:
Heh, that was kind of mean. :x
toothpastekisses
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proudmummy
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I have a good amount of friends & family & also have my partner which is something I feel lucky about, thankfully I got with my partner & made my friends before my SP became quite bad, otherwise I dunno where I'd be, I wouldnt even have my son 
It sounds scary, even though I go through rough patches with my partner in which I want to break up with him, sometimes I can't see life without him as he is one of very few people I feel really, really comfortable with & he gives me that sense of security which makes me sometimes wonder if I need anyone else other than him & me son. Obviously I do tho!
It sounds scary, even though I go through rough patches with my partner in which I want to break up with him, sometimes I can't see life without him as he is one of very few people I feel really, really comfortable with & he gives me that sense of security which makes me sometimes wonder if I need anyone else other than him & me son. Obviously I do tho!
xabbashiax
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I think no friends is worse it makes you feel worse there are loads of 'normal' people without a partner but when you don't have any friends it increases you're isolation
Walk
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I think I rather have friends than a girlfriend, though having both is better.
Even though it's easy to fantasize about that perfect girlfriend/boyfriend, almost all of the relationships I've seen last for about two years and they have a lot more bickering than buddies have amongst themselves.
Just reflecting what I've observed almost 100% of the time, although having an awesome gf is definitely on my "wish list".
Even though it's easy to fantasize about that perfect girlfriend/boyfriend, almost all of the relationships I've seen last for about two years and they have a lot more bickering than buddies have amongst themselves.
Just reflecting what I've observed almost 100% of the time, although having an awesome gf is definitely on my "wish list".
vj288
not actually Fiona Apple
If those were my only two options I think I'd choose to have friend(s) and no partner. Unless it was a lifelong partner, then I'd want the partner over friends. It would really come to the quality of the relationships I guess.
