what should I do

LostLuna

LostLuna

Member
I feel so worthless and unwanted. I am so alone. Even my friends have abandoned me and no matter how hard I try I can't make them like me again.
How should I deal with being utterly alone?
 
Psychedelicious

Psychedelicious

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Well first off, you should stop complaining so much, and stop trying to make everyone else feel miserable. Stop trying to make other people feel guilty for things they didn't even do. Don't act so desperate all the time either, and maybe sometimes figure out that everything isn't about you. The most important thing though, You have to listen to people. If you spend all of your time just completely ignoring what everyone has to say, that you'll get nowhere. You can't listen to just you all the time, since you're not always right. Not everyone has to like you, and you'rse goign to have to accept that before anything else. If you just complain "Oh everyone hates me!" for the rest of your life, then that's going to be the truth.
 
LostLuna

LostLuna

Member
Its obvious that I am no good if people do not like me.. I try hard even but it doesn't work.. they cant handle my emotions. I just cant be in a happy mood like they can.
 
Richey

Richey

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Well if your anything like me, i'll be at a gathering sitting down around a table with a group of people, and everyone is usually over-the-top and cheery and they cope fine, as for me i can be enthusiastic but not for the whole time, and so these people will have an answer or a comment for every single subject and i'm just thinking how is this possible that a single person can just sit there and ramble out interesting banter from thin-air because i'll sit there quiet until i can think of a sentence that is coherent and makes sense ...but it has to be on a subject i'm aware or am educated of, if it isnt i'll ask a question but even asking a question feels like i'm bringing down the mood ...even though i think i'm being enthusiastic, and i think its because the people i'm sitting with are only really wired to interact with the people they normally or routinely have conversations with ...so if i speak up people are in shock and its unusual for them ..

this is my family i'm speaking of here, cousins, aunties, friends of siblings that come around for birthdays and festive days ...

i find loud mouth arrogant types are the hardest to be around in general, not sarcastic but the really domineering in your face types, and i seem to have plenty of those around me ...
 
LostLuna

LostLuna

Member
I just want people to like me is all.
When I'm depressed I cant just stop being depressed , or I would NEVER be depressed. I'm not really an attention seeker, but I don't like it when I feel like no one likes me. People seem glad that I am gone. I wonder if they've ever experienced that kind of rejection.
 
xSleepy

xSleepy

Well-known member
* Sleepy Gives Luna a BIIIGG Hug*

im sorry, I cant really think of what to say right now. Maybe later...
 
LostLuna

LostLuna

Member
Everything you say Richey is just like my experience.
I try hard to get along, but I just don't have what it takes I guess.
As soon as I am around people I immediatly feel inferior.
Then I'm depressed.
SO naturally I bring everyone's mood down I guess.
It must be wonderful being so happy.
 
Psychedelicious

Psychedelicious

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Luna shut up. We love you! You're a crazy bitch, but you're also awesome. Just stop with this, it's ridiculous. Just don't be so desperate! and don't talk about yourself 24/7!! Pleaseeeeeeeeee. We don't hate you.... :/
 
noblame4

noblame4

Well-known member
Okay, here's how I see it. People dont want to help you. People want YOU to help THEM. People dont want to like you, they want YOU to like THEM, people dont want to understand you, they want YOU to understand THEM. Going around and unconciously forcing your pain on others wont get you anywhere. Noone wants to give something for nothing. If you want to make friends, you've got to learn how to kiss a little ass here and there, and you've got to go first. Therein lies the problem. Decifering just what it is someone wants from you. Social skills would be handy, that's where therepy comes in.
 
miss_amy

miss_amy

Well-known member
Luna, I did like you..... I still could if you give me a chance.

I find you hard to interact with. I actually feel quite insulted by you sometimes. You tell me I treat you like trash and put you down...it's in your head..I do not.
I also feel you are jealous of my friendship with others, especially incognto. I have been close friends with him for quite a while now. The way I talk and tease with him in the chatroom has been happening for several months way before you came along.. You seem to view it as a personal attack on you.

We all have our problems here..its the nature of this forum...you are not the only one with mental health and depression issues here and I also have a very traumatic past....
The chatroom for me is escapism....bit of fun and virtual company and a place I enjoy visiting, well I did until you stirred up an atmosphere.

My ideal would be for you to drop this, join in the fun chat, escape your problems for a while and enjoy being with people who DO understand.

I would like to be your friend Luna, but you make it very difficult.

Please also stop sending me messages...my messages on here are a happy place for me and you are ruining that with your poison..please stop.
 
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