What do you do in the weekends?

[Falkor]

Hi there,

This is a feeling I have. I have friends, but they don't ask me to go out too much, you could consider me being a loner, I feel embarrassed to admit, but I have 800 friends on fb though, mostly they are people who like my singing and vlogging on youtube, i seem very popular on the net, but in real life i am a big fat loner. -.-' so what can i do about it? I do have some friends who'd like to hang out though. but I always am too shy to ask them, so it mostly fades away. Haven't seen them for ages. So I am alone at house hanging out with my grandparents most of the time. Ouch, how foolish of me.

at this point i feel stupid and unwanted. seeing all those people having friends to hang out with, i do nothing... seriously.

nobody who'd like to hang out, i really feel lonely. i had a girlfriend where i went to every weekend, and now i like someone, so i do have some ppl to go to, and i have a friend in london who wants to meet in my country every year, and i want to go to her place in london, am planning to. and a guy who wants to meet up sometimes, and a girl in my street but we haven't seen eachother for about 1 year, so you could consider me haven't seeing friends for, ehrm, a long while.

so what should i do. any ideas, do you guys feel like me, in this useless situation? getting envious when ppl are laughing with their friends, miss it..

all right, thats about it. It is a deep wound..

 

[javierb]

I stay at home, see Tv, computer, books, music... you can see...

 

[theslowesthand]

I do the exact same thing in weekends as in week. Every day is exactly the same.

To myself, i am doing a a fair bit (though frustratingly i never seem to "get" anywhere with all my efforts). Planning to plan to do planning to live, that's me! lol

To others, i probably appears to be doing absolutely nothing at all with my days & life (ie wasting it away) ... but i don't give a damn, never really have.

But I know the truth, that i am progressing day by day, in spite of my oftentimes misery & stress & extreme frustrations. Sometimes i forget this truth. And SOME DAY (who know when though, could be months, years, or decades ahead) i EXPECT to "get on top of" my life & all the difficult problems i face almost daily. I have been waiting for about 20 years for this to occur, but only the god/universe knows when any real success wil come my way...

 

[Silatuyok]

I work on weekends, and honestly I much prefer to have my days off during the week. There are fewer people out and about on weekdays, so I can enjoy myself more.
If you are bored on weekends, I would recommend just getting out to explore your neighborhood. Volunteering is another option. Some of the most amazing experiences I have had came from volunteering. There are hundreds of options out there.

 

[Flanscho]

Well, each sunday I'm going to a movie evening at friends. We order pizza, sometimes people bring pancakes or cake. That's fun and relaxing (not much communication required).

Every few weeks, on a saturday or sunday, I meet with some friends to play the pen&paper roleplaying game Changeling: The Dreaming. That's fun too.

Sometimes we also have board game afternoons/evenings on the weekend. Or play some computer games together.

 

[Silatuyok]

Well, each sunday I'm going to a movie evening at friends. We order pizza, sometimes people bring pancakes or cake. That's fun and relaxing (not much communication required).

Every few weeks, on a saturday or sunday, I meet with some friends to play the pen&paper roleplaying game Changeling: The Dreaming. That's fun too.

Sometimes we also have board game afternoons/evenings on the weekend. Or play some computer games together.

Um, can I be your friend? That sounds really fun.

 

[Ithior]

I do the same things I do during the week except instead of going to university in the morning, I sleep the whole morning.