What are your expectations?

KiaKaha

Banned
We all have expectations for ourselves - and if we are truly honest with ourselves - expectations from others.
Individually, socially and institutionally.
Not a single person on earth is completely self reliant.

So I am wondering - what are your expectations.... and do you feel that those expectations are reasonable?
 

mikebird

Banned
Entirely
to gain some respect and take me seriously

Most negotiations, a large proportion of which are job interviews

I reach a pinnacle of interviews are set up, with several each week. Coping with this pressure has been (a year ago, and previously...) can lead to a panic attack

It's approaching right now.
There has been success. I get into situations where I become lost in very different directions, if I should be the consultant who knows best, where some will listen and let me suggest a course of action, but otherwise I'm absolutely willing to follow others to give the orders. Clashes might be caused by my SA behaviour and their judgement. Some can't or don't want to get into the technical side which I do. My attempts to explain the facts can go ignored. Maybe I should pick a different metaphorical example to make it easier to understand, but effort made by the other party would make things better for all of us.

My current worry is my old classic of 'they don't know what they want'. Being shoehorned into a new job 'at the deep end' is something I adore. I am tolerant to bow down and follow orders with the motto of 'can do attitude', but with clear display of a set of facts for management people to show there were no data for... 1992. It was either not gathered or has been lost since.

All about appropriate communication. Kangaroo court is when people's judgement sprouts from those having trouble listening, if I'm seen as a geek / nerd who presents statistics. When office people jump up from their cubicle divisions waving arms, screeching, howling and whoooping, it's not my type of humour.

Still chasing interviews as they pile up, continuously learning to avoid any mistakes I made from the last time. It gets me in a good mood, but a lot of rejections can lead to a different type of passion

Yes. Personal confidence and pride, but it doesn't necessarily apply to others
 

pnr

Active member
I tend to listen to others and take what they say too much to heart.

So I try too hard to please other ppl and hence fall trap to their expectations. Those ppl tend to be called "haters" they always concentrate on things I can't do or are too unrealistic. Usually they tend to be ones they know I would meet.

And when I don't live up to them, well they enjoy gloating how much of a loser I am.

Lately I have been listening to myself mostly and find that I am happier when I do.
 

laure15

Well-known member
Getting people to treat me with respect and stop judging me, harassing me, making fun of me, etc. I know my expectations are unrealistic because people are not going to stop with their negative behaviors, but I can still hope.

Expectations for myself include gaining more confidence and happiness.
 

Klonoa

Well-known member
Getting a nice girlfriend to be with, for one. So I'll treat her like a princess and keep her company.

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Also improving my art. Because Gawsh-Dang does that keep haunting me.
 
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