RandyMarsh
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My social life has been nonexistent since around the summer of 2010 because going out to bars or clubs with my friends was just way too stressful and I wasn’t enjoying it at all. I still see a few of my friends the odd time to hang out and yesterday I decided I’d go to the bar to play pool with them for the first time in ages. It went much better than I thought it would although I didn’t really relax at all though but better than sitting at home by myself. Apart from one bit when I talked to this girl I used to go to school with and it went terribly, we were talking for a couple of minutes before there was an awkward silence and she was just like well ill c u then and I just said bye. It was awful. It was so bad I’m bright red just thinking about it. I don’t understand why I can talk to guys normally then when I speak to a girl I just turn into a nervous wreck ,all the doubt and self loathing kicks in and my mind tells me things like I’m sh*t and I don’t deserve to be alive. I am supposed to go out again tonight. When I was in school whenever I was going out I remember I had this class excited feeling, now the thought of going out I am filled with dread and fear. I am only 20 years old and for some reason it feels like my life is over almost, like I will never have fun again. I’m pretty confused right now because it’s got to the stage where I don’t enjoy myself at home alone or when I’m out.