theoutsidergirl
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Met a guy online a month ago with whom I wanted to just spend some time with sight seeing. I've already got a boyfriend, but don't really love him anymore though, because we don't have sex life and he's not that talkative etc. , which I also told my new aquaintance.
We've met 5 times so far and we hold hands, are tender to one another, hug each other and kiss each other etc. He takes me out and lets me stay at his place. Now I've fallen in love with the guy. Yesterday, as we went to meet in a nice restaurant and I told him that I have feelings for him and he said that he doesn't. He said that it takes time for him to fall in love... I was pretty dissappointed and sad. He said it would be mean if he had lied and said that he did, which is true.
The whole time we were together I thought he was making indications that he has feelings for me...Now my feelings are dimed down and I no longer feel all to much for him. I just hate the thought of being played with and the trust is cracked...
Do some guys need a lot of time to fall in love? Are all those tender touches and going out a sign that he is taking me seriously, but just wasn't enough to fall in love jet?
We've met 5 times so far and we hold hands, are tender to one another, hug each other and kiss each other etc. He takes me out and lets me stay at his place. Now I've fallen in love with the guy. Yesterday, as we went to meet in a nice restaurant and I told him that I have feelings for him and he said that he doesn't. He said that it takes time for him to fall in love... I was pretty dissappointed and sad. He said it would be mean if he had lied and said that he did, which is true.
The whole time we were together I thought he was making indications that he has feelings for me...Now my feelings are dimed down and I no longer feel all to much for him. I just hate the thought of being played with and the trust is cracked...
Do some guys need a lot of time to fall in love? Are all those tender touches and going out a sign that he is taking me seriously, but just wasn't enough to fall in love jet?