this_portrait
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I think I have both of those.
And I think they may have just driven this guy away from me.
I'm finding that I'm afraid to open up when it comes to dating, because I'm scared of getting hurt again. I told this guy I'm dating that, and I don't think he was too happy with it. He thought it was "b/s" because "if you really like someone, that shouldn't matter."
I'm now starting to question whether I should even be dating in general. I think I still have unresolved issues stemming from my last relationship that I need to work on. I figured that I was 100% past every bit of it, but unfortunately my past experiences seem to be negatively affecting the way I interact with guys I go on dates with.
Maybe I should discuss this with my therapist next weekend when I see her. I was tempted to call her a moment ago, but didn't.
-sigh- Sometimes I wonder if I should just have friends and not date until I become more comfortable around people in general. It seems like the better option at this point.
And I think they may have just driven this guy away from me.
I'm finding that I'm afraid to open up when it comes to dating, because I'm scared of getting hurt again. I told this guy I'm dating that, and I don't think he was too happy with it. He thought it was "b/s" because "if you really like someone, that shouldn't matter."
I'm now starting to question whether I should even be dating in general. I think I still have unresolved issues stemming from my last relationship that I need to work on. I figured that I was 100% past every bit of it, but unfortunately my past experiences seem to be negatively affecting the way I interact with guys I go on dates with.
Maybe I should discuss this with my therapist next weekend when I see her. I was tempted to call her a moment ago, but didn't.
-sigh- Sometimes I wonder if I should just have friends and not date until I become more comfortable around people in general. It seems like the better option at this point.