Ah! The Weekend Story...
Oh yes, the 'What did you do at the weekend' question. Normally used in western cultures in order to stimulate some kind of interesting conversation. Sometimes, it can be utilised when faced with an awkward conversation in the work corridor or kitchen. For example:
John: Erm (cough) hi
Isabelle: Hi. How are you?
John: Good thanks. How was your weekend?
Most of the time, noone really cares what their work colleague did at the weekend. However, when someone begins to tell their story the 'Listener' smiles and nods now and again to show interest. It is also sometimes met with utterances such as 'Oh really', 'Cool', 'Excellant', 'A relaxing weekend is nice'.
Once the weekend story has been told by the 'first person to tell the weekend story'. The protocol is to then ask what the 'listener' did at the weekend. For example:
Isabelle: ...then I took it out and whacked it with a ruler.
John: Ha ha. So a good time was had by all then.
Isabelle: So how was your weekend John?
John has then been invited to tell his 'weekend story'. He is expected to tell any 'amusing' stories that happened such as 'A bird pooped on my head', 'My wife ran away with the pool guy', 'I pulled my groin while vacuuming the house'. If no amusing stories come to mind, John might just begin to list trivial things that happened that nobody really gives a shit about but this is required in order to ensure that the conversation follows the correct protocol.
In order to end the conversation, John might say something like:
'So I better be getting back to my desk to meet the deadline'
'Well have a nice day Isabelle'
Then the conversation is completely resolved and both conversants can get on with their life following the correct norms and procedures.
So the point to note is:
- Nobody really cares what you did at the weekend.
- People who ask about your weekend are normally boring fuc#ers anyway.
- You could be telling your weekend story in double Dutch and most people would just smile and say 'Really', 'Cool', 'Radical dude' (well maybe not the last one).
- It's just a way to avoid awkward silences. The people who ask are normally insecure anyway.
- If you didn't do anything at the weekend, just say:
"My weekend was good thanks. How about you?"
- If they ask what you did. Just say:
"I just had a relaxing time watching some movies and playing games. It was good fun"
P.S Never think that you are boring. What does it mean anyway. "Boring" - it is such a stupid word. It is mostly used by people who are so insecure that they have to keep on doing exciting things in order to tell people about it for fear that they will be discovered as 'Boring'.
Have you ever head of 'Doing for the telling'. Some people actually do stuff just so they can tell people about it.
Anyway that is my spiel over with. I better get on with that deadline. Have a nice day!