This will be long as a book, sorry, but I need to RANT.
I'm so sick of people like my brother. He is a complete prick to everyone 80% of the time, he is controlling, and he is so entitled to everything. It's like he is the sun, and we're all tiny planets revolving around him. It's the little, silly things that really make me notice this, but tiny moments are so telling. Like the other day he and his girlfriend walk in the living room to eat and watch a movie. There are only 3 tray tables and my dad and I are each using one already so he's like "okay, one of you all are going to have to give up your table" so he and his gf can each have one. Naturally, one of us is supposed to eat on our laps I guess.
He has stolen from everyone in my family and pawned my mom's wedding ring 3 times (because he had an addiction problem, like that totally excuses it), owes my mom and dad THOUSANDS of dollars that he has conveniently seem to have forgotten about and has no intention of paying it back. He lies about everything and manipulates to get his way and is so ****ing condescending and a know-it-all.
Somehow he has a fiance and they're talking about a big wedding and a honeymoon in Hawaii, when NIETHER of them has a job and when he owes my struggling parents money. And he goes out and charges a couple of thousands of dollars for a nice wedding ring!! He doesn't even look for a job. They stay at our house half the time, rent free, and her house the other half of the time. My parents cook for them. They won't clean, do they're own dishes, and I end up washing and folding loads of their laundry with no thanks whatsoever. If I beg him to do their dishes, he tells me to "chill the **** out" or rants like a ten year old before throwing them angrily in the washer. HE IS 25 YRS OLD!!
Still, someone like him has a gf and tons of friends and a life, while people like me sit here, racked with anxiety with no friends or life to speak of. And to top it off, somehow he ALWAYS ends up being the victim or being pitied. I'm miserable everyday, but no one even seems to notice or care. When I expressed my disgust for the fact that they're coming here for the night, my mom goes, "Well, it must be hard for him because nobody acts like they want him here and your dad's always on him for everything. it must hurt his feelings" Are you ****ing kidding me?!?!?
how do *******s like this always seem to own the world, have friends, relationships??
I'm so sick of people like my brother. He is a complete prick to everyone 80% of the time, he is controlling, and he is so entitled to everything. It's like he is the sun, and we're all tiny planets revolving around him. It's the little, silly things that really make me notice this, but tiny moments are so telling. Like the other day he and his girlfriend walk in the living room to eat and watch a movie. There are only 3 tray tables and my dad and I are each using one already so he's like "okay, one of you all are going to have to give up your table" so he and his gf can each have one. Naturally, one of us is supposed to eat on our laps I guess.
He has stolen from everyone in my family and pawned my mom's wedding ring 3 times (because he had an addiction problem, like that totally excuses it), owes my mom and dad THOUSANDS of dollars that he has conveniently seem to have forgotten about and has no intention of paying it back. He lies about everything and manipulates to get his way and is so ****ing condescending and a know-it-all.
Somehow he has a fiance and they're talking about a big wedding and a honeymoon in Hawaii, when NIETHER of them has a job and when he owes my struggling parents money. And he goes out and charges a couple of thousands of dollars for a nice wedding ring!! He doesn't even look for a job. They stay at our house half the time, rent free, and her house the other half of the time. My parents cook for them. They won't clean, do they're own dishes, and I end up washing and folding loads of their laundry with no thanks whatsoever. If I beg him to do their dishes, he tells me to "chill the **** out" or rants like a ten year old before throwing them angrily in the washer. HE IS 25 YRS OLD!!
Still, someone like him has a gf and tons of friends and a life, while people like me sit here, racked with anxiety with no friends or life to speak of. And to top it off, somehow he ALWAYS ends up being the victim or being pitied. I'm miserable everyday, but no one even seems to notice or care. When I expressed my disgust for the fact that they're coming here for the night, my mom goes, "Well, it must be hard for him because nobody acts like they want him here and your dad's always on him for everything. it must hurt his feelings" Are you ****ing kidding me?!?!?
how do *******s like this always seem to own the world, have friends, relationships??
Put him for the choice: 
