Dark angel
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Sometimes I wonder if the rest of the world is wrong or is me who does not deserve to be part of this society. I dont want to sound like a pessimist(which I am most of the time) but here is the only place I can vent and feel like you guys can understand me. I feel like the rest of the world is changing but Im the only one who is not really evolving. One of my best friends is getting married in 3 months and the other one is about to have a child but Im still in the same place never changing, never moving. Now, I heard that other girl who also studied with me is also getting hitched and she is much younger than I am. In my case, I cannot even get someone else to like me and I've never been in a relationship before. I dont like the fact that in order to survive in this world or feel "normal" you gotta follow those rules. Go to college, graduate, get a job, get married, have kids and "live happy ever after". Why? Why is it not possible to suffice with just me and my own little world. Why can't I get just a piece of the happiness everyone has and I feel miserable day after day? Sometimes I can bear it by ignoring everything that is around me and ignoring the fact that I am a sore loser.But others, it just get to me. That moment of realization that you probably wont get as far as you always thought. And that is where the worst part is. My family thinks I am this marvelous and intelligent human being because during my college years I was always studying and reading and didnt do much else. But the reality is that I did that in a way of escaping everyone and everything else. That way I didnt have to deal with other people. I didnt have to confront the real world or try to fit in. It was just me and my books most of the time. What they dont really know is that I avoided a lot of stuff that right now Im regretting big time. I couldn't give an oral presentation without stuttering so I avoided taking classes that involved doing so. I didnt participate in things that I enjoyed and that were very important in order to move my career forward because of that irrational fear, but they do not know that part. I didnt even finish with exceptional grades, I mean, I had good grades but not exactly exceptional. Im average in every sense of the word. Im average looking, my intelligence is average(and Im been kind with myself here 'cause sometimes I feel dumber than dirt) my social skills are average. Sometimes I like to think that everything will look better for me in the future but I just dont see it. I feel like my life will always stay the same. And if that happens then I dont see the point on keep on going...