Sometimes I come across as a complete a$$hole

chickenmaryjane

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I've come across as being cold and angry by people, and the dirty looks run chills down my spine! I hate that people judge me that way. Social anxiety is disgusting! A freak disorder that causes so much suffering.
 

dottie

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hard to appropriately control facial expression + baaaad eye contact + avoidant body language (physically turning away) = people think i'm a jerk. it's so difficult to go against this when it is engrained and instinctive. people say be yourself but that is what they will get and they usually don't appreciate it. can't say i blame them.
 

Argamemnon

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hard to appropriately control facial expression + baaaad eye contact + avoidant body language (physically turning away) = people think i'm a jerk. it's so difficult to go against this when it is engrained and instinctive. people say be yourself but that is what they will get and they usually don't appreciate it. can't say i blame them.
i'm like that too, but i'm not sure if our real selves are that. it may be a defense mechanism. but i know i'm not a cheerful person by nature. not at all.
 

Sacrament

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It's annoying when people make threads and then delete the initial post. Now I don't know what the fudge is going on specifically.
 
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