Tab said:
Sacrament said:
What do you mean you have to stick with it? Just stop using it and wait until the hole closes up.
well doesnt after like 3 months the hole is permanent?
I got my ears pierced when i was 4.
They have stayed open pretty much my entire life. I hardly ever wear earings, but i know that if i need to, i can always stick one in.
However, not everyone is like that and it really depends on your body. My sisters' holes close up all the time (but a lot of that has to do with allergic reactions to metal which trigger healing prcesses that pretty much close up the hole).
But anyway, you are grown, and while i assume that your family means a lot to you, i think that a small hole in your ear will not be the deal breaker that alienates you from your family. Try not to worry so much about what others think and do something because you want it.
or at least that is what people keep telling me to do.
If nothing else, you can get a tiny, tiny stud that no one can even really see to wear around your family... and if you do decide that you don't want a ring in your ears in ten years, just take it out, no one could see a tiny hole in your ear.
just relax and have fun.