Hi. I have a serious question to ask. I'm a 50ish Mom with anxiety disorder and depression. I also have a daughter with the same. I found this site for her and I'm thrilled she realizes she isn't the only person with this disorder. My daughter is a member on this site. She knows I check in every once in a while. I read some of your posts and I so badly want to give words of encouragement, or tell you to "get over it" when it's needed, or give my advice on situations, etc. I'm a MOM 100% of the time. I even wrote a post on meeting women and got censored. That was EMBARRASSING! I have lived with anxiety my entire life. But I managed to get a College degree, marry (twice!),gave birth to 2 beautiful daughters (pregnancy exacerbated my anxiety into a full blown Major depression with a hospitalization), and have a successful career (though I'm currently unemployed due to avoidance personality disorder). I feel like I'm a wealth of knowledge on this "illness". And I call it an illness because anything that routinely disrupts your life is an illness.
Now for my question. Most of you are very young. Maybe you could use the wisdom of someone who has been there. Maybe you don't need another Mother. And I assure you I would approach most posts as your Mother. There doesn't seem to be many older women posting on this site, though I know there are a few. On the other hand, I want my Daughter to have a place to rant and rave about me. (She loves me with all her heart, but hates my guts. Imagine that!). I so badly want to reach out and give some of you hope, but I want my daughter to have her place too. I'd gladly lay down my life for her, as most Mom's would do. I know her well enough to know she would tell me to go ahead and "post away!". Is there room for both of us on here, or should I let this be her place? Be kind when you respond! I have feelings too! (Coyote cracks me up too).
Now for my question. Most of you are very young. Maybe you could use the wisdom of someone who has been there. Maybe you don't need another Mother. And I assure you I would approach most posts as your Mother. There doesn't seem to be many older women posting on this site, though I know there are a few. On the other hand, I want my Daughter to have a place to rant and rave about me. (She loves me with all her heart, but hates my guts. Imagine that!). I so badly want to reach out and give some of you hope, but I want my daughter to have her place too. I'd gladly lay down my life for her, as most Mom's would do. I know her well enough to know she would tell me to go ahead and "post away!". Is there room for both of us on here, or should I let this be her place? Be kind when you respond! I have feelings too! (Coyote cracks me up too).
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