sex scenes in films being watched with the parents. .how you deal with it?

[MotherWolff]

Normally when im watching a sex scene in a film I dont find it awkward at all but when im watching a film with my parents when a sex scene comes on I don't know where to look, I end up leaving the room or giggling or going on my phone, I become extremely tense and uncomfortable. .im 21 and its been that way for a long time. I remember this time I was watching a film and I think my parents realised how un comfy it was making me feel and fast forwarded the film..I was wondering if anyone else experience d this and how do u deal with it

Whoa! I thought I was the only one who felt this way. I get like this around all my relatives. For example, 21 Jump Street(the movie) will be coming on Starz on Direct TV tomorrow, and I was going to record it. But it has so many quick sex scenes and sexual innuendo (that I find to be very funny) that I decided not to record it because my dad isn't into that.

Sometimes I even wonder what it looked like when my parents had sex to conceive me and my full-blooded brother. EEEEEEWWWWWWW!!

 

[SmileMore]

I pretend i need to go to the bathroom or something if i think something like that is coming up.

 

[BlackPuma]

Watching them with your parents is pretty bad. But it's even worse when you're watching it alone and the character are very vocal in the act, which causes their sounds of love to echo through the hall and into the living room.

Because at that point nobody knows whether you're watching a movie.. or straight up porn. Of course, I KNOW that when it's porn that the sound is either off or I'll wear headphones, but others don't know that..

I mean.. I'd never watch that stuff. At all. :X

 

[MikeyC]

Of course, I KNOW that when it's porn that the sound is either off or I'll wear headphones, but others don't know that..

I mean.. I'd never watch that stuff. At all. :X

Suuuuuuuuuuure you don't.

 

[BlackPuma]

Suuuuuuuuuuure you don't.

It was a instructional yoga video I tell you!

'Co-ed only' methods.. that are cooperative in nature.. and physically labouring.. also specifically designed for nudists.

 

[doctor_who]

Ergh I hate porn...I find it funny that when guys whack off to naked girls its deemed as socially acceptable even if there in a relationship and they use the excuse babe all guys do it..and that makes it better does it when you cant wait to finish with me so you can watch another girl with your hand...ill never get it... but when a woman even looks at another guy she is called all names under the sun somehow thats unfair...a guy sleeps around he is called legendary by his mates even when he has a girlfriend. ..a woman cheats or sleeps around and shes called horrible names...society is fked up

 

[MikeyC]

Ergh I hate porn...I find it funny that when guys whack off to naked girls its deemed as socially acceptable even if there in a relationship and they use the excuse babe all guys do it..and that makes it better does it when you cant wait to finish with me so you can watch another girl with your hand...ill never get it... but when a woman even looks at another guy she is called all names under the sun somehow thats unfair...a guy sleeps around he is called legendary by his mates even when he has a girlfriend. ..a woman cheats or sleeps around and shes called horrible names...society is fked up

I think the first part of this post does not sync with the last part. Not liking porn and girls and guys sleeping around doesn't match up.

I do agree that it's a pretty shitty double-standard regarding men and women having sex. I dream of the day that's eradicated, but I don't think it will be, sadly.

I watch porn (not ashamed to say that), but if I had a girlfriend I would try to never watch it. It's difficult because of its ease of access, but if my girlfriend is awesome, she will be worth it. :thumbup:

 

[doctor_who]

I think the first part of this post does not sync with the last part. Not liking porn and girls and guys sleeping around doesn't match up.

I do agree that it's a pretty shitty double-standard regarding men and women having sex. I dream of the day that's eradicated, but I don't think it will be, sadly.

I watch porn (not ashamed to say that), but if I had a girlfriend I would try to never watch it. It's difficult because of its ease of access, but if my girlfriend is awesome, she will be worth it. :thumbup:

I was more saying that men seem to have it easy they can do whatever they want and girls get called names, get looks, get shunned. We definitely live in a mans world, I know its not even the topic of the thread.

thanks for all your responses, didn't think this thread would spark up. I am glad i'm not the only one who finds it awkward when a sex scene comes on a film with the parents.