A friend
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Hello everyone, I've returned, although I wish this could be more positive.
The biggest issue I've been having for years was almost resolved, until I started learning more about it.
Getting a girlfriend/future wife seemed appealing to me, but now...after so many people have told me it's incredibly stressful, loads of work, and only makes life more difficult and an unhappy experience...I feel like avoiding it, again.
Yeah, I'm scared of the dating world. But that's primarily due to the possibility of getting hurt.
I've read and heard about people committing suicide because of this, meaning that heavy negative emotions can be generated from it.
Another thing about me, what can hurt most people would be amplified for me. Yeah...I'd appreciate it if I didn't have to spend the rest of my life being miserable.
So, what do you guys have to say about this? Are relationships and marriage not truly what the media and older generations portray it as?
Are relationships really that difficult? Are they so hard that they'd make 13 year olds have hair as grey as rain clouds in San Francisco?
I honestly don't think I can take that kind of punishment.
The biggest issue I've been having for years was almost resolved, until I started learning more about it.
Getting a girlfriend/future wife seemed appealing to me, but now...after so many people have told me it's incredibly stressful, loads of work, and only makes life more difficult and an unhappy experience...I feel like avoiding it, again.
Yeah, I'm scared of the dating world. But that's primarily due to the possibility of getting hurt.
I've read and heard about people committing suicide because of this, meaning that heavy negative emotions can be generated from it.
Another thing about me, what can hurt most people would be amplified for me. Yeah...I'd appreciate it if I didn't have to spend the rest of my life being miserable.
So, what do you guys have to say about this? Are relationships and marriage not truly what the media and older generations portray it as?
Are relationships really that difficult? Are they so hard that they'd make 13 year olds have hair as grey as rain clouds in San Francisco?
I honestly don't think I can take that kind of punishment.