Not sure if I'm posting this in the right place, so sorry if it's not.
So because of SA and other issues I'd never really been in any relationships until just now, I'm 20. But I met this guy and everything seemed to be going fine, I know he had some issues but I said I was fine with that. But today he phoned me up and said that he realises he can't be in a committed relationship right now, and he wishes we had met a year later, he hasn't been out of his last relationship that long and he hasn't gotten over her properly basically and some other issues he has. I understand this, but it's left me feeling like a complete idiot as I'd already told my family and friends about him, now I just feel too ashamed to tell them we have broke up already. And now I just feel like I'm not meant to be with anyone and I'll be single forever. Yeah it's probably stupid but I'd been single for so long, it made me feel like something in my life was finally going right for a change, and now I'm back to square one again.
I'm also starting Uni for the 2nd time in a couple of weeks, I lasted 2 weeks the first time >.<, I was feeling all positive and now I just feel like I won't fit in and will just be the loser.
Any one have any advice on break up etc for me, and how to feel positive about my situation?
So because of SA and other issues I'd never really been in any relationships until just now, I'm 20. But I met this guy and everything seemed to be going fine, I know he had some issues but I said I was fine with that. But today he phoned me up and said that he realises he can't be in a committed relationship right now, and he wishes we had met a year later, he hasn't been out of his last relationship that long and he hasn't gotten over her properly basically and some other issues he has. I understand this, but it's left me feeling like a complete idiot as I'd already told my family and friends about him, now I just feel too ashamed to tell them we have broke up already. And now I just feel like I'm not meant to be with anyone and I'll be single forever. Yeah it's probably stupid but I'd been single for so long, it made me feel like something in my life was finally going right for a change, and now I'm back to square one again.
I'm also starting Uni for the 2nd time in a couple of weeks, I lasted 2 weeks the first time >.<, I was feeling all positive and now I just feel like I won't fit in and will just be the loser.
Any one have any advice on break up etc for me, and how to feel positive about my situation?