kayelle
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Hi guys,
I just wanted to get an opinion from people here on the forum. Earlier I was contradicting what someone said to me on another thread, but it turns out I had misunderstood what he was trying to say so I apologised for that.
But then this morning I had a private message from him, and it really really upset me and I just felt a bit alone so I wanted to get advice from you guys. This is what he sent me:
It's just that, I've had panic attacks for 6years now, and yet I still went out and had friends and started college, even though most days was a complete living hell for me. Then about a year ago, I just gave up and I've hardly left the house for over a year. I only have one friend now and I've dropped out of university and quit my job. It's just that I feel nothing like the person he's describing.
My question was, is he right? Should I really not be on the forum, because before this I had friends and had a life, even though I had close to unbearable anxiety? Do I really not have SA?
The slogan on the top of every page on top of this forum says you are not alone, but I feel really alone right now.
I'm sorry for offending people
PS: sorry about the really long post
I just wanted to get an opinion from people here on the forum. Earlier I was contradicting what someone said to me on another thread, but it turns out I had misunderstood what he was trying to say so I apologised for that.
But then this morning I had a private message from him, and it really really upset me and I just felt a bit alone so I wanted to get advice from you guys. This is what he sent me:
Just because I am not as active as you with your recovery doesnt mean Im not doing jack shit with my self you showoff. Why dont you just take yourself and your other cool members with you elsewhere. you having social phobia my fucking arse!!!!!
You say in one of your post that your hyper and loud. I bet your one of those chicks I see whenever I am out (which is rare) who never shuts up in concerts or on the cinemas while I am trying to enjoy a nice movie. A person whom I cant even fucking get a word in and just listen to your non stop fucking dribble.
you try to make me feel bad because you havent been to a cinema for 2 years now. Let me guess what you have been up to over the last 2 years compared to mine. I bet while I type this your too busy partying and getting drunk, a weekly ritual for you hey????? Do you wanna know what Im gonna do today, its a saturday I aint gonna go to the cinema Im just gonna be at home surfing the net, watching tv playing video games at home. Now thats what I call a fucking shit life. I am the only person who has the rights to say that my life is shit and my life is worse. You have the rights to just go, seriously your post aint legitimate enough. It really does sound fake that you even have S.A when the fact is your just an outgoing party chick who feels just a tiny little bit insecure and maybe a bit different. Try fucking feeling different from the whole world???? Have you ever felt that huh
Yeah thats right I fucking hate the world, fucking hate you and fucking hate everyone. And why dont you just post your special photos elsewhere with you and all your special pretty friends? Theres a thing called myspace and facebook you know why dont you keep your party pics there instead.
And as far as exposure therapy whatever it is your talking about at least your not agoraphobic like me or maybe some of us. You get to go out, you have a life, maybe more of a life than some of the non sufferers that I know off which probably makes you among the top 5% of the cool ppl of the world. I have no life at all.
So yeah your different from us, ur way too cool so give us a break, give us our hiding spot where I basically ONLY belong instead of seeing THE SAME PEOPLE EVERY SINGLE FUCKING DAY CAUSE THE MEDIA HAS BRAINWASHED ALL OF YOU TO LOOK AND ACT THE SAME AND LIKE THE SAME STUFF and thats why Im different because I havent caught the hype of the media telling us to get drunk and shit faced every weekend, to have as much sex like pornstars do so this pressure is like fucking killing me inside slowly. I see ur from Ireland, but we have ppl like you over here too in Australia, america, canada, NZ, the whole of fucking europe THERE ALL FUCKING THE SAME, YOUR ARE ALL FUCKING CLONED TO BE THE SAME.
It's just that, I've had panic attacks for 6years now, and yet I still went out and had friends and started college, even though most days was a complete living hell for me. Then about a year ago, I just gave up and I've hardly left the house for over a year. I only have one friend now and I've dropped out of university and quit my job. It's just that I feel nothing like the person he's describing.
My question was, is he right? Should I really not be on the forum, because before this I had friends and had a life, even though I had close to unbearable anxiety? Do I really not have SA?
The slogan on the top of every page on top of this forum says you are not alone, but I feel really alone right now.
I'm sorry for offending people
PS: sorry about the really long post