Question list : What makes you confident?

[Falkor]

Hello,

Do you miss something in life? Do you need more to make you feel completed?
Are you fighting for challenges, Succes, A relationship, social status, ego, abillities, good looking features, talents or special gifts?

What would make you feel completed, where you wanna be? And why does it make you better from who you are now? This is a question that I ask, because we should accept the situation we are in and of course keep fighting for the ambitions or wishes you are willing to find. But, never forget, you should realize what is good in the presence.

Questions:
1.What would complete you? (pick from the list above and describe why?)
2.What makes you confident?
3.What is the key of succes for you? (describe what a succesfull living means for you)
4.Do you feel that a relationship makes you feel a lot better cuz you have someone around?
5.Do you find yourself good looking?
6.No? Describe the features you DO like. Yes, what do you like?
7.What is a real challenge for you, you would like to experience?
8.What is your biggest wish?
9.Do you think SA is cureable?
10.Does SA stop you from reaching goals?
11.Do you have a talent?
12.Do you think you have the abillity to overcome SA?
13.Do you feel confidental sometimes?
14.Do you compare yourself to other people?
15.Are you proud after a small / major victory?
16.What are you doing to overcome SA? (therapy,self help reads)
17.What are you proud of, in the presence?
18.What is your small victory this week? (related to SA)
Greetings

(I just came up with some inspiration and thought I'd create a question list for you guys )

 

[kihira]

I like your question lists

1.What would complete you? Feeling healthier & younger
2.What makes you confident? Good sleep; travel
3.What is the key of succes for you? Healthy, content
4.Do you feel that a relationship makes you feel a lot better cuz you have someone around? Yes and no. I often wonder if I would be better off single as I've always felt a bit of a dud at relationships
5.Do you find yourself good looking? No, I look old and haggard
6.No? Describe the features you DO like. Yes, what do you like? There really is nothing that I like anymore
7.What is a real challenge for you, you would like to experience? A solo journey - a long bushwalk over many days or a weeks long walk in another country
8.What is your biggest wish? ????
9.Do you think SA is cureable? No, but it is manageable
10.Does SA stop you from reaching goals? Yes, it stops me from even thinking about goals - or is it avoidance?
11.Do you have a talent? I can cook without recipes; find lost things; fix things; other stuff
12.Do you think you have the abillity to overcome SA? I mostly have
13.Do you feel confidental sometimes? Confident? Genuinely - sometimes. Mostly I pretend
14.Do you compare yourself to other people? Not much anymore, its pointless
15.Are you proud after a small / major victory? Rarely
16.What are you doing to overcome SA? I think I need to do some goal setting and move myself from current situations; I tend to accept what comes along, even if it isn't the best for me. I've always been too scared to go for what I really want in life. What I have has landed in my lap
17.What are you proud of, in the presence? In the present - I'm proud of the photos I'm taking; that I not self-conscious taking them in public; that I dont care if other people dont like them; that I'm feeding my creativity
18.What is your small victory this week? I created a situation in which someone else made a positive step with their SA. I had to challenge myself a bit for that to happen

 

[Phoenixx]

I like your question lists too. They are always quite interesting.

1.What would complete you? Hm... I'm not really sure actually. There's so many things I want and strive for (Like getting over anxiety, working my way to being happy and accepting myself, actually getting a boyfriend, etc.), I think I'd only be complete if I accomplished them all.
2.What makes you confident? Wearing new clothes makes me confident for a little while. Getting my hair done and wearing makeup works too, but of course the confidence only lasts so long.
3.What is the key of success for you? Hmm... Being healthy and happy I suppose?
4.Do you feel that a relationship makes you feel a lot better cuz you have someone around? I have never been in a relationship and I believe I would feel a little bit better if I was in one.
5.Do you find yourself good looking? Not a bit.
6.No? Describe the features you DO like. Yes, what do you like? My eyes. That's basically it.
7.What is a real challenge for you, you would like to experience? I'm not sure...
8.What is your biggest wish? That within the next year or so I am truly happy.
9.Do you think SA is cureable? I don't think it's curable 100%, but I think you can get to the point where you can manage quite well.
10.Does SA stop you from reaching goals? Yes and no. I won't let it stop me from reaching my future goals. But it has stopped me in the past from certain mini goals like, I want to talk to this person, or get to know them, I want to try something new, but I'm too afraid, etc.
11.Do you have a talent? Yeah, actually more than one. I hate to sound like I'm bragging, I'm just glad I'm good at more than one thing.
12.Do you think you have the ability to overcome SA? Yes. It might take me a while, but I believe I can do it as long as I have patience.
13.Do you feel confidental sometimes? You mean confident? Very rarely do I ever. When I do though, I embrace it.
14.Do you compare yourself to other people? Yeah. I shouldn't, I know. Sometimes it's like I can't help it.
15.Are you proud after a small / major victory? Eh, depends on the victoy. Sometimes I am, sometimes not.
16.What are you doing to overcome SA? Right now, nothing. But I plan to get counseling this fall/winter when I go to college.
17.What are you proud of, in the presence? Hm... Idk?
18.What is your small victory this week? I made gluten-free brownies yesterday that taste somewhat normal... Still need to work on it though.

 

[Pacific_Loner]

1.What would complete you? Talent, Beauty, 70 000$, and... well let's just say self-acceptance.
2.What makes you confident? Hmmm... When I'm close to reaching the bottom and all suddenly life gives me a new chance, and I take it, and it turns well.
3.What is the key of succes for you? Being happy and in peace with your past, present and future self, and everything and everyone around you.
4.Do you feel that a relationship makes you feel a lot better cuz you have someone around? No
5.Do you find yourself good looking? No
6.No? Describe the features you DO like. Yes, what do you like? My general miniatureness
7.What is a real challenge for you, you would like to experience? Producing a short-movie, climbing everest without guide, diving down the Mariana trench?
8.What is your biggest wish? Secret I'm superstitious
9.Do you think SA is cureable? At a certain degree yes, but I think it always stays the core of the personality
10.Does SA stop you from reaching goals? I don't think so... Maybe it slows me down
11.Do you have a talent? I have some mediocre artistic and accordeonist talents, and apparently I'm a good climber (though I personally think I suck)
12.Do you think you have the abillity to overcome SA? At the level that I want to overcome it, yeah sure...
13.Do you feel confidental sometimes? It happens, but when it does, I feel guilty
14.Do you compare yourself to other people? All the time(way too much in fact)
15.Are you proud after a small / major victory? Sometimes... But I feel guilty when I do
16.What are you doing to overcome SA? (therapy,self help reads) I don't let it stops me from doing what I need to do to reach my goals.
17.What are you proud of, in the presence? That I'm not in depression (touching wood)
18.What is your small victory this week? (related to SA) I've completed a 2 days course that I needed to apply to a job... it involved lots of interaction with people and lots of speaking in front of everyone that was very painful but now I have the f*cking certificate

 

[djkghigh]

Questions:
1.What would complete you? (pick from the list above and describe why?)alot of money and a Ford Gt
2.What makes you confident?working out and alcohol
3.What is the key of succes for you? (describe what a succesfull living means for you)a life completely different to the one i have now
4.Do you feel that a relationship makes you feel a lot better cuz you have someone around?yes, having ppl around makes you feel better
5.Do you find yourself good looking?in between
6.No? Describe the features you DO like. Yes, what do you like?low body fat results in more visible definition
7.What is a real challenge for you, you would like to experience?getting married
8.What is your biggest wish?i dont wish ever
9.Do you think SA is cureable?beats me
10.Does SA stop you from reaching goals?yes, very much and its affected most things in my life
11.Do you have a talent?had but i could get it back
12.Do you think you have the abillity to overcome SA?me and some help
13.Do you feel confidental sometimes?all the time
14.Do you compare yourself to other people?unconsciously i believe
15.Are you proud after a small / major victory?for a few minutes
16.What are you doing to overcome SA? (therapy,self help reads)doing things i enjoy
17.What are you proud of, in the presence?getting my drivers liscence
18.What is your small victory this week? (related to SA)helping out my cousin
Greetings

 

[Beatrice]

1.What would complete you? Self-acceptance, (plastic surgery on my hands if it was available. haha)
2.What makes you confident? Feeling that I look okay/nice, exercise
3.What is the key of succes for you? Doing things in line with my goals, reaching some of my goals, healthy social interactions
4.Do you feel that a relationship makes you feel a lot better cuz you have someone around? Yes, but it's not always a good idea for me. If I'm in a depression, I get really attached and when something goes wrong (like an argument), I panic and get even more depressed. It's so bad.
5.Do you find yourself good looking? For the most part. There's really only one feature I would change about myself.
6.No? Describe the features you DO like. Yes, what do you like? Everything except my hands. I wish I was a little taller too, but eh, whatever.
7.What is a real challenge for you, you would like to experience? A great social life, traveling the country or the world.
9.Do you think SA is cureable? I do. Because I've read stories of people who have become "cured". But it's certainly not easy.
10.Does SA stop you from reaching goals? Yes, all the time.
11.Do you have a talent? I play three musical instruments (not as well as I'd like to though)..... I'm sure there are other things but can't think of them
12.Do you think you have the abillity to overcome SA? Hmm. Yes, I think so. I've already come a LONG way.... I didn't even realize it until I joined this site. Compared to some, I'm really well-off and I probably should keep my complaining to a minimum. I wish I could help others get to where I am. Of course, I DO still have many social anxiety issues that hamper me.
13.Do you feel confidental sometimes? You mean confident? Yes, I do. Sometimes.
14.Do you compare yourself to other people? All the time.... *sigh* I really need to stop that.
15.Are you proud after a small / major victory? Yes But of course, the negative thoughts then kick in and tell me that it was nothing, and how sad for me that THAT constitutes a victory. It's so sad what our minds do to us.
16.What are you doing to overcome SA? Push, push, push. I push myself. And therapy/meds.
17.What are you proud of, in the presence? Staying on task with schoolwork, and getting my butt up and starting to run.
18.What is your small victory this week? (related to SA) Ummmm, I don't have one, actually. Besides sort of not caring what people think in certain situations.

 

[lunarla]

1.What would complete you? (pick from the list above and describe why?) Firstly, just feeling good about myself. And on a consistent basis. Not wavering so much on that from external things.
2.What makes you confident? I've never felt that I have beauty on my side to help me feel confident. So, at times, when I've been able to show my knowledge about something, and show it well, it makes me feel good for a little bit. But that doesn't happen lately.
3.What is the key of succes for you? (describe what a succesfull living means for you) I'd think it would be just feeling content regularly. Feeling good enough that I can recognize all the good around more regularly. And with all that, being productive.
4.Do you feel that a relationship makes you feel a lot better cuz you have someone around? Not really, no. I'm comfortable with being alone. Maybe that's not the best thing to be comfortable with, but that's how it is. From my experience, being with someone, or having someone like me, usually makes me feel more insecure. :\ However that works.
5.Do you find yourself good looking? Not conventionally... not to me, really.
6.No? Describe the features you DO like. Yes, what do you like? I like my hair sometimes. My lips. mah booty (body in general, I've never had too big a problem with).
7.What is a real challenge for you, you would like to experience? Being who I am while around people, and just anyone.
8.What is your biggest wish? To accomplish some nice things in my life
9.Do you think SA is cureable? I'm not sure.
10.Does SA stop you from reaching goals? My general anxiety, and other stuff certainly has.
11.Do you have a talent? Hmmm. Really nothing that I would call a talent.
12.Do you think you have the abillity to overcome SA? Yes.
13.Do you feel confidental sometimes? Sometimes. Moments that don't stay too long.
14.Do you compare yourself to other people? Yes
15.Are you proud after a small / major victory? Hmm. If I can recognize it, yes.
16.What are you doing to overcome SA? (therapy,self help reads) Not just SA, but other stuffs. Umm, therapy, might be trying some meds.
17.What are you proud of, in the presence? I am pretty proud of who I am. Just not so pleased that I can't seem to project that outwardly too often.
18.What is your small victory this week? I've been starting to fix my bad sleep pattern.