Sorry for the long post, feel free to ignore, but I have a positive social experience! I've just come back from a stag do and I had such a good time!
At first, when I got the invite yesterday morning, I didn't really want to go, but I was feeling strangely confident that morning so I thought, sod it, and I said I'd go.
But throughout the rest of the day I began to regret my decision, and I began thinking of all the things that could go wrong; "it'll be too boisterous", "the lads will all be too much for me", and "I'll be the party pooper, the one who's too scared to join in". To the point that I had actually decided to not go.
But then I talked to my brother, who was going with me, and he convinced me it wouldn't be so bad, and we'll only stay for a few drinks and that's all. So I thought, ok, and I went.
But when I got there, it was great! I felt relaxed, it was all pretty easy going. The other lads [it was my cousins stag do, so I don't know his friends well], were all pretty inexperienced in nights out too. So we were all in the same boat really.
We went to a casino, which was great fun, then went to Yates. I had a few drinks, more than a couple of the others who were even more restrained than
me! And I got a little drunk
....infact I'm still a little drunk right now!!!
And it was great fun, I loosened right up, we had a little dance, spoke to a few nice girls, it was exciting!
I had to leave early cause I have to work early tomorrow, but I really wanted to stay out all night......perhaps I should've in retrospect. But that's amazing, considering I wasn't even gonna go at one point. I haven't been out on the town since I was like a teenager, and I haven't been drunk in years, but I can totally see why so many do it now every weekend. it's so much fun! I must admit I used to look down my nose a little at all the people that go out every weekend and get hammered, but I can totally see the attraction now. It was awesome!
so I'm feeling good right now, although also a little sad that the evening is over, and I won't get another chance to do something like that again for a while. I feel sad, cause I felt close to something tonight, real intimacy and connection with people, but I had to cut it short.
But anyway, sorry for the long post again, but i'd just like to share my experience. Perhaps it might inspires others who are worried about the worst that could happen, when they could be missing out on the BEST that could happen!!!