Perhaps this is a silly comment and revealing of my own state of mind ...however, having looked at photographs of members both here and in the album, my thoughts are that...
-all of these people are either very good-looking or give me the immediate impression of being normal and socially successful.
Like I said, perhaps this is a silly comment. Yet, if I were to see one of the people in these photos down the street, I would be inclined to think that only I had social problems and that the person (in the photo now walking down the street) was 'perfect' or otherwise just couldn't have a problem like mine.
...weired that I judge based on appearance, thinking that if this is good that others by comparison to me are confident and well-to-do. I suppose that that is part of the insecurity and it is called 'social anxiety' afterall.