Starry
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Re: Post your picture thread
I think Kia is right to a degree... I've noticed people who are well above average looking get many more comments than people who are average or below... Now that's not to say that all people who only get a few comments are "ugly", just not outstanding.
However, I must add people DO miss pictures. I've missed pictures myself and only realised when I've checked the thread after someone else has posted and I've seen other people's comments.
I must also add though, that I only comment on some people... Usually those of the opposite gender (I feel my opinion is less valid if it's the same gender and it sounds false to me) and only if I can think of something specific to say. I hate just saying "you look good" as it sounds incredibly false to me, so I will only comment if I can say "you have nice eyes" or "you look friendly" or something to that effect and it has to be true for me to say it. I'm not the sort of person that will give fake compliments because then the real ones mean nothing... Maybe that's why I never truly accept praise from others, I know others are very prone to lying in that regard.
I think Kia is right to a degree... I've noticed people who are well above average looking get many more comments than people who are average or below... Now that's not to say that all people who only get a few comments are "ugly", just not outstanding.
However, I must add people DO miss pictures. I've missed pictures myself and only realised when I've checked the thread after someone else has posted and I've seen other people's comments.
I must also add though, that I only comment on some people... Usually those of the opposite gender (I feel my opinion is less valid if it's the same gender and it sounds false to me) and only if I can think of something specific to say. I hate just saying "you look good" as it sounds incredibly false to me, so I will only comment if I can say "you have nice eyes" or "you look friendly" or something to that effect and it has to be true for me to say it. I'm not the sort of person that will give fake compliments because then the real ones mean nothing... Maybe that's why I never truly accept praise from others, I know others are very prone to lying in that regard.
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