WHEN Sikh student Balpreet Kaur saw a tasteless post targeting her beard and sideburns she provided a most eloquent response.
Someone unknown to Kaur, who is studying neuroscience at Ohio State University, took an unflattering picture of her and her facial hair and posted it on social news website Reddit's "funny” section.
A string of nasty comments followed before Kaur wrote back.to explain her appearance.
“Yes, I’m a baptized Sikh woman with facial hair. Yes, I realize that my gender is often confused and I look different than most women. However, baptized Sikhs believe in the sacredness of this body - it is a gift that has been given to us by the Divine Being (which is genderless, actually) and, must keep it intact as a submission to the divine will.”
Kaur continued to school callous commenters on her religion, explaining that she wasn’t upset or offended and if anyone wanted a photo, “they could have just asked and I could have smiled.”
“To me, my face isn’t important but the smile and the happiness that lie behind the face are,” she wrote. “So, if anyone sees me at OSU, please come up and say hello.”
Kaur explained that when she dies, “no one is going to remember what I looked like.”
“However, my impact and legacy will remain: and, by not focusing on the physical beauty, I have time to cultivate those inner virtues and hopefully, focus my life on creating chance and progress for this world in any way I can."
Kaur is a member of Interfaith Youth Core, a group that promotes tolerance and encourages young people to learn about multiple faiths.
The Reddit user who posted the photo, “european-douchebag,” subsequently apologised.
The 20-year-old from Melbourne, Florida., who asked to remain anonymous, told the New York Daily News he understands why people are angry, saying "it was an ignorant post."
He posted an apology on Reddit and also reached out to Kaur.
"It turns out she went to my rival high school where I grew up [in West Chester, Ohio]," he said. "She was glad in a sense that I posted it so more people could see, and so much positivity came out what started as a negative thing.
Talking to Kaur "completely opened my eyes," he said.
"I never even thought about how she felt or what she was going through. I really admire her faith."
The Reddit community condemned the post and hailed Kaur for her response.