Mactans82
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I don't want to go into detail, I just want to say that part of this is a strong fear of rape scenes in movies and tv shows, as well as (as strange as it sounds) a feeling that I need to watch them. I can't watch them with other people because they terrify me and I just end up running out of the room or reacting in a strong and very embarrassing way. However, there are times when I'm alone at night or something that I think about how ridiculous it is to have such strong reactions to something in a movie that isn't really happening and I try to find rape scenes online and watch them, but they scare me so it takes a long time to watch one, and then I go to bed and have night mares and can't sleep. It's exhausting. I want to know if there's something I can do to change this. Should I try to keep watching rape scenes until they don't bother me as much anymore? Like exposure therapy or something? Should I try to watch them with other people and try to stop myself from reacting strongly? But then again I don't know why I react so strongly and I'm not sure how to stop it, it's just a reaction and it's hard to control. What should I do? What should I not do? I don't even know if this is really an obsession because it doesn't happen all the time and it isn't taking up a huge part of my life, but there are times when it gets in my head for an extended period of time and it keeps me up at night and it's exhausting. It goes away, but it always comes back at some point.