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SAM2011

Banned
Do you think the online world is a little fake to what happens in reality. I mean would you get along with people from here in real life? Are people just nice on here because their lonely in real life? Do you think people are fake on here? I'm just curious. People's true colours sure do shine when you get to know them in reality. I've been let down so many times when you try to get to know someone from online. Sometimes its just a act people being nice. :)
 

MikeyC

Well-known member
Obviously a lot of people's personalities are filtered online. The best way to get to know people is by personal interaction. I still believe I would make a few friends from people here, though.
 

MrJones

Well-known member
I'm not fake in here and I'm sure other people are hones too. I would gladly meet some users from this site in real life. And I actually want to do it.
 

KiaKaha

Banned
I think there is a difference between how people are online and how they are in the real world.... but that's not a hard and fast rule. I think the internet allows people to be a bit more confident about who they are and what they wish to say.... mostly because there is a degree of anonymity and less accountability.

I think the nature of the internet allows similar types of people to come together very easily. You can say hello to someone online and start a conversation with relative safety, and with a very high chance that they will respond back to you in kind... but in the real world you cant... in the sense that most people that I observe seem to be very closed off and hesitant from interacting with someone with who they are not already familiar with (and that happens online too, but to a lesser extent I think)

Sometimes I think... that the only reason people actually bother with other people is because they HAVE too....

As for whether or not people here would get along with other people in real life... I guess that depends on each person. Most people are pretty friendly (it seems) and can no doubt identify with one another... also I think because bonds form within members in a forum there would be good feelings between members that would transfer in the real world.

But of course... that doesn't mean EVERYONE is going to get along... we are all different, we come from different areas of the world, with different backgrounds, temperaments, ages, ethnicity, personalities, social statuses etc...we all see things in our own unique and very individual way... the only true common factor we have is that we are here for support with our.... social problems.

Thats what I think anyway :)
 
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davidburke

Well-known member
i'm more myself on here than i could ever be in real life.there are lots of users from here that i would love to hang out with :)
 

emre43

Well-known member
I think we're all in pretty much the same boat. We just want to be accepted and I feel that we would be able to empathise with one another and get along. I would like to meet a lot of you in real life.
 
I think people are just as fake on here as they are in real life... because "people" are still people - even social phobics.

I'm completely myself on here... it's a nice change from the usual "having to hide myself" in real life... that's just me though.
 
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