No offence but...Harden up?

[Frankenberry]

firm believer of the old ways..i'm 17 and can only thank bullies for letting me know what the real world is like...if ur soft ur not gonna make it....so please...harden up..

 

[SocialRetahd]

The real world, huh?

I'm now working in the real world, and so far, no concussions to speak of, no bruises, and very few verbal assaults.

Bullies only survive in schools because it's a controlled environment. NOW, If any type of harassment, assault, or slander, was to take place, I would press charges or maybe notify an attorney.

 

[Frankenberry]

i'm not certain on ur demographical placement dear... i like in a metropolitan city ...Sydney. i got out fairly often usually during hte evenings and confrontation is very common,,, sure you can live without noticing but bullying is more frequent out of school. not physical tho...


btw people like you need to be cleansed from this earth....crying about ever ball that lands somewhere other than your court...everybody gets bullied, those who complain at the 1st sign of this piss me off....if i can do it why cant others????

 

[SocialRetahd]

If people over the age of 17 are still bullying, than you must be dealing with some real human trash.

 

[Frankenberry]

human trash??? survival of the fittest??

i guess you could say they are the stronger???? bullying is not all that bad...u build up immunities to it....myself being on both ends of this stick....i'm not attcking you...i'm just struggling to get my point across

 

[SocialRetahd]

Well I guess some people never grow up.

 

[Frankenberry]

ahh yes. because me ideals on bullying are different to yours i'm immature??? nice work there buddy....hey what ever.... you obviously didn't cope well with it....i did..

 

[dottie]

if i can do it why cant others????

because people do not off of an assembly line. i guess you are good at *everything* right? apparently you have never encountered someone who can do something you can't do. you are very cocky.

 

[SocialRetahd]

I wasn't referring to you, I was referring to people that you deal with. If people are still teasing you like you're on a playground then they must not be the most civilized people alive to resort to that.

 

[Frankenberry]

cocky far fromit.... i'm nto good at every thing lol...i'm over weight and look at my spelling _ i smoke... i just know that everybody can build up an immunity....if u shake it off once...and then twice..and eventuallymake it a second nature you will find it hard to be offended...although i admit emotionlessness isnt to great

 

[dottie]

i just know that everybody can build up an immunity

wrong. you know that YOU can build up an immunity. you do not know for everybody else. again, you just demonstrated your arrogance.

and to everyone else, i propose we stop feeding the troll.[/u]

 

[Foxglove]

Hey, Frankenberry. It's people like you who are probably the most likely to "go postal" one of these days. I hope I'm not around when you do it.

 

[Niles]

human trash??? survival of the fittest??

i guess you could say they are the stronger???? bullying is not all that bad...u build up immunities to it....myself being on both ends of this stick....i'm not attcking you...i'm just struggling to get my point across

Bullies are not stronger people. The reason that they bully is because they are pieces of shit who fucking know it and they bully to make themselves feel that inch bit taller. A strong person has no need to do such fucking things to feel good about themselves you turd. And the fact that you have taken on what was done to you means you are nothing more than an unthinking little shit...monkey see monkey do.

 

[Kat]

You could easily say the bullies need to shut their mouth. Why does the victim have to change. That is a corrupt way of thinking not to stand up to bullying. Problems don’t go away by ignoring them. If people didn’t stand up for some of their rights we wouldn’t have some of the entitlements we have today and just because it happens to everyone doesn’t mean it should continue. It may not be the real world at present but women and men weren’t considered as equal at one point and that still goes on in some cultures and it may of still continued everywhere if people didn’t make a stand. Sure some people maybe easily hurt but if my intent was not to hurt them then I would make it damn clear that wasn’t my intent but if it was my intent then that is wrong and they need to stand up to me because only a horrible nasty person would want an innocent person to feel bad and those type of people aren’t the ones you should change for and accommodate to their way of being. :twisted:

 

[recluse]

firm believer of the old ways..i'm 17 and can only thank bullies for letting me know what the real world is like...if ur soft ur not gonna make it....so please...harden up..

You are out of order coming on this site and preaching this to us as if you are better than everyone else! If you are so hard why the hell did you sign up on this site?

 

[coriander1992]

yeah, because violence and bullying is always the answer isn't it Frankenberry :roll:
Bullying hasn't done me any favours.

 

[Infected_Malignity]

firm believer of the old ways..i'm 17 and can only thank bullies for letting me know what the real world is like...if ur soft ur not gonna make it....so please...harden up..

You, sir, may have just found the secret to your own shyness (I'm assuming you've at least felt shy in the past, since you're posting here). One thing I'm working on is seeing fear as the same way - something that's there to help you along, not just an obstacle along the way. I'm pretty sure mostly everybody alive right now has either been or felt bullied by at least somebody in the past, so that's no longer a good excuse for shyness. Just go with the "I'm a pussy" like me and you'll feel a little better almost immediately

 

[of_darkness]

So let me get this straight,

You think the best way to cure anxiety and be strnger is to stand up ipto bullying just by taking it all in happily with no offence taken?

I think you couln'dt be more wrong. Maybe they'd back of a little if you ignored them but surely the best things to do are to either stand up to them and make them look like idiots in fromt of everyone else, or just take it badly like they want to. Noone wins if you ignore them. No matter what you're twisted view is, they're still winning. You might think they's being put off but no, they just think you're just as weak and not worht bothering. Not a human being worth looking at....

"Oh, I'm strong because I can take every insult that is thrown at me!!"

Nice Idea but no. That's totally why you're on this website. Why we all are. Well at least why I am, because I've learnt to do that too, but I don't PREACH it! I'd warn everyone not to! You've got the wrong perspective totally, you must be insane not to notice that this is having a negative effect on you.

Oh ad we're the same age. I don't see any reason why bullies should carry on through life. If your ambitions are high enough you won't need to even thik of them because you'll be a so much better person..

 

[lost_inside]

sorry but you have NO right to say 'harden up'.
bullies taught you to be brave have they?
what about they bullies that bash little children?
take money from children that there parents have worked hard for.
this is not teaching you ANYTHING about the real world.
these things are not suppose to be the norm.
children have committed suicide over bullying.
Im sure there parents would love to meet you.
being so tough, courageous and all.

 

[kyle]

firm believer of the old ways..i'm 17 and can only thank bullies for letting me know what the real world is like...if ur soft ur not gonna make it....so please...harden up..

I don't agree. I think bullies go too far. There is nothing good that comes out of being humiliated for years.