Different girls want different things. Many don't nessessarly want bad boys. They usually want nice guys. Unfortunatly, they arn't usually attracted to them so they tend to reject all the nice guys who are interested in them. Some wonder why they keep getting into bad relationships. Others think the guys they are dating are nice guys because they give them the right kinds of attention in the right amounts. Generally, girls go for guys who are a "challenge" so they are never "bored." (I don't nessessarily mean those words literally) Basicly most "need" to feel secure, but not too secure. In what way this is achieved, depends on the girl. Most like to feel in control, but not be in control. This sometimes causes conflicts in relationshops cuz the woman may expect things from the guy and he is left to guess it. In marraige, some guys may find women may seem controlling, but it's the same psychological forces playing out. (Actually, these roles of guys and girls can be reversed sometimes) This is just my observation and it seemed like a consistant pattern to me. I was also given a similar explanation by a couple "players" my brother is friends with. (I hate how methodical and successful they are, especially how oblivoius the girls.) Some girls do like nice guys. I don't know much about what exactly they are attracted to though. If anyone knows where to meet them, I'd love to know. Lol. I should add, that I'm not talking about everyone, but many of the girls who go for guys who aren't nice guys. cuz i don't want anyone to find what i said sexist. Things like this arn't always black and white.