lunarla
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And not in a "heheh" school girl kind of way. I'm just nervous about guys that I don't know, and don't have very much trust in anyyyy of them that I may just see walking down the street. I think it may have something to do with all the shows I watch about abduction and abuse on women and whatnot (probably). I've come to this conclusion because I haven't been physically or sexually abused personally. So it kind of confuses me about how I have this sometimes paralyzing fear of guys. More often lately I've been having these thoughts that will pass through my mind, usually very graphic thoughts, about me being hurt in countless different ways by males. Recently my mom and I were leaving and it was somewhat dark out, and there were these two 18-23ish looking guys walking up the hill very near to where I live. I immediately asked my mom if she locked the doors and was a bit worried about that for a while. Today I found out that they just moved in a few houses down from me. I like to go for walks, and having been planning to do it even more lately, so it really makes me even more worried than I would have been previously. How irrational am I being about this? For all I know they could be nice, normal guys. But for some reason I immediately think that they're going to plot some way to hurt me.
I also want to know if there's a couple other instances that I may have been irrational about. A summer ago I was walking my dog as I usually did and there were these two boys (different ones) who were on a different level'd road near to me (sort of a corner, but where I was walking was higher up so I could see them) anyway, they spot me and start walking towards me in a way that I thought was very quick and sort of offensive. I pick up my pace in the other directions and after a couple minutes of following me, they turn around and go the other way. Is that suspicious? Also, another time, I was walking to my bus and a truck on the main road slows down and stops for about 40 seconds close to where I'm walking on the second road parallel to it. It wasn't at a stop sign or anything, just stops dead in the middle of the road, then speeds off. Suspicious, or no? Yet anotherrrrr time I was walking to my bus again, past this house and this man walks out just as I'm walking by. He looks straight at the ground and it's just sort of suspicious to me because, for one, it was winter at about 7 in the morning and there's really no where that I could think he'd be walking to because the nearest store is probably an hour walk. That same man has been standing on his porch a couple times as I'm walking and just sort of looks at me. Definitely gives me a weird feeling in the pit of my stomach, and I'm supposed to listen to that, right? Or maybe my pit-of-my-stomach feeling has a broken circuit or something so it just goes off at any little thing.
I also want to know if there's a couple other instances that I may have been irrational about. A summer ago I was walking my dog as I usually did and there were these two boys (different ones) who were on a different level'd road near to me (sort of a corner, but where I was walking was higher up so I could see them) anyway, they spot me and start walking towards me in a way that I thought was very quick and sort of offensive. I pick up my pace in the other directions and after a couple minutes of following me, they turn around and go the other way. Is that suspicious? Also, another time, I was walking to my bus and a truck on the main road slows down and stops for about 40 seconds close to where I'm walking on the second road parallel to it. It wasn't at a stop sign or anything, just stops dead in the middle of the road, then speeds off. Suspicious, or no? Yet anotherrrrr time I was walking to my bus again, past this house and this man walks out just as I'm walking by. He looks straight at the ground and it's just sort of suspicious to me because, for one, it was winter at about 7 in the morning and there's really no where that I could think he'd be walking to because the nearest store is probably an hour walk. That same man has been standing on his porch a couple times as I'm walking and just sort of looks at me. Definitely gives me a weird feeling in the pit of my stomach, and I'm supposed to listen to that, right? Or maybe my pit-of-my-stomach feeling has a broken circuit or something so it just goes off at any little thing.