"negativity"
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everyone seems to give up on me. everyone seems to hate me. they all seem to see me as conceited, or selfish, or idiotic. lazy. etc. everyone seems to see me as cruel, as "negative", as ungrateful.
I dont trust anyone. nobody trusts me.
I never seem to be on the same wavelegnth as anybody. I am lost in my own world.
I dont trust anyone. nobody trusts me.
I never seem to be on the same wavelegnth as anybody. I am lost in my own world.
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
I can totally relate, I'm in the same situation myself, no1, as a fellow social anixety suffer. I'm lost in my own world too, most of the time.
Though I can't really much advice, other than, try and stay positive when you're feeling down and negative - easier said than done, I know.
It all comes down to how we see and perceive ourselves and that, in return, is how others see and perceive us. I'm sure nobody hates you, it only seems that way. They probably just don't understand. Maybe it's just that those around you don't know you have social anxiety?
And the whole thing with not trusting people I can relate there as well. For most people with social anixety, trust is an issue but it's one thing that needs to be overcome if we want to overcome our social anxiety.
worrywort
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You're definitely not the most negative person on earth....just the fact that you're reaching out and posting on this website makes you braver and more positive than a lot of others.....plus I've noticed a few of your posts around and you seem like a really honest and sincere guy....which is a lot more than I can say for many people I know.
don't get down mate....some of the greatest people to have lived have been hated and persecuted just for being different....we're all on our own journeys....just stay true to yours and you'll be fine
don't get down mate....some of the greatest people to have lived have been hated and persecuted just for being different....we're all on our own journeys....just stay true to yours and you'll be fine
marciaX3
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someone i was friends w/ told me i'm too negative all the time, and that if i keep thinking negatively then negative things will happen.... well, ya know what? she doesn't live my life, she didn't have the crap that happened to me happen to her to make me this negative!! (this was a big fight of ours if ya can't tell lol). she doesn't understand what it's like to feel so low that thinking negatively is actually a step up. so basically i stopped being friends w/ her anyways. she wasn't helping me at all by talking to me like that, if anything she was just making me feel worse. i HATE when people downplay your feelings when they haven't gone thru what you have in order to know what it's like... ugh!! so try not to let these people get to you and don't feel bad for having your feelings!! if they're not somehow illegal thoughts (like wanting to commit murder or some crap), don't let others make you feel bad for what you feel! being told you're not allowed to feel a certain way will only make things worse IMO.
206Raider
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Yeah just want to add I feel the same, and I definatley feel on a different wavelength to everyone else, like im from anothe planet or something, which although does make things difficult, its also a good thing, because im glad im not on the same low wavelength most other people seem to be on. I am lost in my own world all the time.