Some bitches just wanna take your money. I don't get it, but our judicial system lets it happen every day, so there's nothin we can do about it really. The woman in the relationship always gets hooked up in a divorce, even in dreadful cases like this. It's just ****ed up man you gotta take it on the chin and know that you're a better man now that you're out of that situation. You honestly saved your kids life. You'll get through it man, hang in there.
Peace