I remember a couple months ago, I was at someone's retirement party and I was waiting in line to get my food from the tables. Well, there was this black girl(don't know her name) who seemed nice and was always smiling at me. She was standing a little far across from me waiting to get her food. So, we both ended up walking to each other and talked for a little bit, getting to know each other. Well, apparently I think I may have kind of annoyed her because I was too caught up with chatting with her so much that she said something to me like "Aren't you going to get your food?" I'm not sure she said it like that, but how she said it sounded like she was a little irritated. I apologized then because I wasn't paying attention that I wasn't getting food and she said "It's okay." and then after that I asked her another awkward question "Are you happy about the baby?" Like I was referring to my sister's baby and I was assuming that the girl was probably friends with her I think since I saw her sitting at where my sister was sitting at the table. I think I made her feel uncomfortable and she asked me "What do you mean?" I didn't know what to say though. I mean, I didn't know if what I said was inappropriate to her or awkward sounding. I'm sure she knew what I was talking about. I then tried my best to rephrase what I said "Are you excited about seeing the baby?" I mean, I didn't know what way to ask it because I thought she knew who I was talking about because of my sister. She then just said "Yes." It kind of sounded off as annoyed again, but I really couldn't tell. I felt like I made the situation awkward so I just walked back to my table with my food. It's like no matter what comes out of my mouth, the words always end up becoming awkward or embarrassing sounding. I feel like I just put my foot in my mouth for asking such stupid questions. I feel like I make every person who I talk to uncomfortable and it's probably because I'm just naturally socially awkward kind of person.
