maryram13
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I have been suffering from Social Phobia for as long as I remember. I just recently was able to add up all the symptoms and call it something. Here are some of the things I suffer from most frequently:
* I constantly worry about what I say in public, and often think things to myself and never voice them, because I'm worried what people will think of me
* I do not like being the center of attention under any circumstances, including my wedding. Luckily, my flower girl loves attention, and was able to hog some away from me.
* I CONSTANTLY feel guilty about everything. A while back, I hung out with a guy friend of mine a few times. I knew he had a crush on me, but I figured it would still be OK to hang out, since I didn't have one on him. When my boyfriend (now my husband), found out, he freaked. Granted, his best friend had just committed suicide, and he was uptight about that. He later apologized profusely to me for yelling, saying that he shouldn't have. Even though he has apologized, said that he shouldn't have gotten mad at me, and other people don't see what the big deal is, I STILL FEEL GUILTY ABOUT THE ENTIRE SITUATION! I feel like I put our relationship on the line, came close to cheating, even though, logically, I know that's not the case.
* The only time I have felt really good about myself has been with my job. Unfortunately, after my husband and I got married, we found out we were being relocated to a new state for his job (mandatory move). I had to leave mine, and I'm currently looking for another. This, however, requires me to get certified in my profession in this new state, jump through hoops, etc. We just got to the new place, and I'm already feeling depressed with my job. I am a busy body, and when I don't work, I worry. Also, there is the added bonus that I know I'm going to have to meet, and impress, new people, once I get a job. Not looking forward to that.
* Like most women, I constantly feel ugly. I am 25, and suffer from some hormonal acne. It makes me shy away from people even more.
I'm hoping this site will help me battle some demons. I can't really afford therapy right now, so whatever anyone can say that will help me through this rough time...please send it my way!
Thanks in advance,
maryram13
* I constantly worry about what I say in public, and often think things to myself and never voice them, because I'm worried what people will think of me
* I do not like being the center of attention under any circumstances, including my wedding. Luckily, my flower girl loves attention, and was able to hog some away from me.
* I CONSTANTLY feel guilty about everything. A while back, I hung out with a guy friend of mine a few times. I knew he had a crush on me, but I figured it would still be OK to hang out, since I didn't have one on him. When my boyfriend (now my husband), found out, he freaked. Granted, his best friend had just committed suicide, and he was uptight about that. He later apologized profusely to me for yelling, saying that he shouldn't have. Even though he has apologized, said that he shouldn't have gotten mad at me, and other people don't see what the big deal is, I STILL FEEL GUILTY ABOUT THE ENTIRE SITUATION! I feel like I put our relationship on the line, came close to cheating, even though, logically, I know that's not the case.
* The only time I have felt really good about myself has been with my job. Unfortunately, after my husband and I got married, we found out we were being relocated to a new state for his job (mandatory move). I had to leave mine, and I'm currently looking for another. This, however, requires me to get certified in my profession in this new state, jump through hoops, etc. We just got to the new place, and I'm already feeling depressed with my job. I am a busy body, and when I don't work, I worry. Also, there is the added bonus that I know I'm going to have to meet, and impress, new people, once I get a job. Not looking forward to that.
* Like most women, I constantly feel ugly. I am 25, and suffer from some hormonal acne. It makes me shy away from people even more.
I'm hoping this site will help me battle some demons. I can't really afford therapy right now, so whatever anyone can say that will help me through this rough time...please send it my way!
Thanks in advance,
maryram13