wow thought life was starting to get better, got a job, a girlfriend and started to make friends. in the last 48 hours i have started to hate work, loose friends and my girlfriends ignoring me. i am constantly having suicidal thoughts and actually taken a knife to my wrists trying to come up with a reason not to kill myself. cart see myself making it to 2013.
**** life
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dean01
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hi, sounds like you need to step back and take a birdseye view on life, things are never that bad yet we tend to focus on a few things in a negative light. theres so much more in life to enjoy and we just overlook them. treat yourself, it doesnt have to be anything expensive, take some time out and consider what else you have in life, family, friends anything thats positive.
remember thoughts are just thoughts and they will always pass in time, just stay strong and let them pass.
if you really feel your a threat to yourself then go see a doctor or get yourself to the nearest hospital.
remember thoughts are just thoughts and they will always pass in time, just stay strong and let them pass.
if you really feel your a threat to yourself then go see a doctor or get yourself to the nearest hospital.
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Talk to someone A.S.A.P. Go to the emergency room if need be and tell them how you feel.
Section_31
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yes. agreed. go see medical help immediately.
gummybear22
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your girlfriend might be going through stuff, so she's preoccupying herself with that. killing yourself is going to cause a lOt of pain to your family, friends, acquaintances, girlfriend even if you don't think they care about you. you're going through a really hard time now, but nothing stays low forever. have you talked to any of your friends, family, girlfriend about how you feel? even though it might seem easier to keep everything inside and end it all to get rid of it, you need to let it go SAFELY. let some lava and ash out of your volcano but don't obliterate yourself and others.
LifeInternal88
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Hey! Here's a different perspective.
The fact that you were able to get a job, a girlfriend and some friends means you're capable of doing all those things. The way I see it, why not do it again.
So this job didn't work out, get a different one...one you like. It's normal to not like the first few things you try.
The girlfriend...I think ask her what's wrong. Maybe she needs space for something she's going through. Maybe she's upset with you. Maybe she's just not happy.
Same with friends.
So give yourself a break, things don't have to be perfect.
You can talk to me if you like, I've been where you are.
gummybear22
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well i avoid people i see in public that i know, even though i want to talk to them, if they haven't seen me yet, so weirdness with ignoring is always possible.
Flanscho
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Well, having a partner that is emotionally somewhat unstable can be sometimes stressful, and then you need some time out. If you relax that and accept it, there won't be much of a problem. If you start getting angry immediately or something, then that's making everything worse.
The thing is that noone will ever know to 100% what's happening on another persons mind. Or in other words: you are making assumptions. I don't know if committing suicide based on assumptions is a clever idea.