PandaBear
Active member
All of you guys are so sweet. So, here I go.
I’m so scared right now. I really really like this girl and I want nothing more than to meet her and hug her and hold her and just be with her. She’s amazing. Pretty much everything I’ve ever wanted. But I’m so worried she is going to get bored of me. I’m so worried that she’s going to realize that I’m so effed up and not worth the trouble. She tells me all these things, that she likes me and that she likes talking to me, but I worry that she’s just talking to me because she has no one else to talk to. Sometimes, I think people do that subconsciously. I know she wouldn’t do that on purpose. She’s too nice. She tells me to stop worrying. She gives me these great compliments. Why don’t I listen? Why can’t I just chill? I’ve waited for something like this for so long and it does make me happy, the happiest I’ve been in a long time. So why am I so sad right now? Maybe because she’s so far away. Maybe because I’m so worried I’ll never have the courage to pick up the phone and call her. Maybe because my fears are legitimate. She’s just so out of my league. Seeing a picture of her beautiful ex-girlfriend and then looking at myself in the mirror, I just feel awful. I know.. looks shouldn't matter. I still feel insecure though. I can't stop thinking. Every time I say something and she answers with a short response I think, "She's uninterested. I shouldn't have said that." I open up too easily and she holds a lot of things back.
This girl makes me want to get over my social phobia so badly.
I'm a girl too, by the way. This complicates things a bit more.
I’m so scared right now. I really really like this girl and I want nothing more than to meet her and hug her and hold her and just be with her. She’s amazing. Pretty much everything I’ve ever wanted. But I’m so worried she is going to get bored of me. I’m so worried that she’s going to realize that I’m so effed up and not worth the trouble. She tells me all these things, that she likes me and that she likes talking to me, but I worry that she’s just talking to me because she has no one else to talk to. Sometimes, I think people do that subconsciously. I know she wouldn’t do that on purpose. She’s too nice. She tells me to stop worrying. She gives me these great compliments. Why don’t I listen? Why can’t I just chill? I’ve waited for something like this for so long and it does make me happy, the happiest I’ve been in a long time. So why am I so sad right now? Maybe because she’s so far away. Maybe because I’m so worried I’ll never have the courage to pick up the phone and call her. Maybe because my fears are legitimate. She’s just so out of my league. Seeing a picture of her beautiful ex-girlfriend and then looking at myself in the mirror, I just feel awful. I know.. looks shouldn't matter. I still feel insecure though. I can't stop thinking. Every time I say something and she answers with a short response I think, "She's uninterested. I shouldn't have said that." I open up too easily and she holds a lot of things back.
This girl makes me want to get over my social phobia so badly.
I'm a girl too, by the way. This complicates things a bit more.