Thorndrop
New member
How to introduce myself? Hmm... That's one thing I've never been able to do well. So I'll just get right into it.
Hi. I'm Chaz. I'm 17 and I'm from England. I'm socially anxious.
I've never had a good friend and I feel mentally exhausted if I have to make conversation. What do I say? What are people thinking? Will this sound weird? Am I being normal enough? That's only part of it, as I'm sure you can all relate.
That's why I joined here. Though I'm often quite happy being alone, I've always wanted to be able to relate to people and have people relate to me. I've tried explaining to people that if I don't talk a lot, it's because I'm just shy. They don't seem to understand what I mean by that, just telling me to 'get over it' like it's no big deal. To me it is.
My family don't help. My mum always points out my lack of friends whenever she can. It might be on a weekend when I'm doing something in my bedroom and she'll just say things like 'it's a nice day, why don't you go out and find some friends?' like it's the simplest thing in the world to do - it isn't!!
I've not been officially diagnosed with social anxiety (I guess because I haven't seen a doctor in about 10 years) but I'm almost dead certain I have it.
If anyone on here wants to talk to me, I've got no objections. It's just people I know at school who expect me to be a certain way (loud, outgoing, always with people) who irritate me.
Hi. I'm Chaz. I'm 17 and I'm from England. I'm socially anxious.
I've never had a good friend and I feel mentally exhausted if I have to make conversation. What do I say? What are people thinking? Will this sound weird? Am I being normal enough? That's only part of it, as I'm sure you can all relate.
That's why I joined here. Though I'm often quite happy being alone, I've always wanted to be able to relate to people and have people relate to me. I've tried explaining to people that if I don't talk a lot, it's because I'm just shy. They don't seem to understand what I mean by that, just telling me to 'get over it' like it's no big deal. To me it is.
My family don't help. My mum always points out my lack of friends whenever she can. It might be on a weekend when I'm doing something in my bedroom and she'll just say things like 'it's a nice day, why don't you go out and find some friends?' like it's the simplest thing in the world to do - it isn't!!
I've not been officially diagnosed with social anxiety (I guess because I haven't seen a doctor in about 10 years) but I'm almost dead certain I have it.
If anyone on here wants to talk to me, I've got no objections. It's just people I know at school who expect me to be a certain way (loud, outgoing, always with people) who irritate me.