congrats man
How did you do it? Congratulations!
Read Erich Fromm's 'the heart of man' there he talks about narcissism, necrophilia (love for death) and incestuous symbiosis with our mothers.
What you have to do is cut the tie with your mother, endure a very hard emptiness and then there you go.
Wish you good luck to all of you in the process of growing.
Err... What does that have to do with anything? Are you being serious?
Yes------.
So are you over your narcissism, necrophilia and incest with your mother now?