Is this normal behaviour?

[SickJoke]

That's really hard to answer... selfisness just comes up lol selfish woman who just wanna have sex coz of their own needs

But you have to realize, we're all human beings, and we all want to have sex because it's a powerful, instinctual drive. Why should women be held up to a higher standard than men? Their sex drive is just as strong as ours.

I can imagine though having some hot passionate sex with a woman Iam in love, maybe that's why pornos get such a turn off the moment Iam done, meaningless empty sex like disgusting

It seems pretty clear that you don't have a problem with all sex - just "meaningless" sex. When two people are in love, sex is OK with you, am I right?

I think this all comes down to one basic need: you want to feel loved by a female.

Have you ever had a relationship with a female where you felt like she truly loved you?

 

[Remus]

You've got to learn to love yourself Mr Brown, it's a path I'm on myself.

 

[j_brown2]

Not really, just made out with a girl before... like kissing and that which was disgusting to coz I didn't even love that girl, than there was a girl I did love, we got together but the first day I found out she had sex with someone else... no suprise really, that girl was weird as, she just had sex with whoever wanted to do give it to her

Yea I guess it really comes down to having sex while not being in love is really wrong to me, while being in love it might seem ok, I mean what you gonna do after you had sex with a girl you don't love- no hapiness, it all just sucks

That's why I guess I wanna scream you emotionless addicted to sex piece of s*** coz of my emptiness I feel... it's all ironic coz what I think of the girl after sex is what I guess I really think of myself lol

 

[SickJoke]

Not really, just made out with a girl before... like kissing and that which was disgusting to coz I didn't even love that girl, than there was a girl I did love, we got together but the first day I found out she had sex with someone else... no suprise really, that girl was weird as, she just had sex with whoever wanted to do give it to her

Yea I guess it really comes down to having sex while not being in love is really wrong to me, while being in love it might seem ok, I mean what you gonna do after you had sex with a girl you don't love- no hapiness, it all just sucks

It all depends on how you look at it. Obviously love is very important to you. We value things based on scarcity: the more rare something is to us, the more precious it is to us. You're holding love very high on a pedestal, probably because you haven't experienced much of it.

To me, sex is just fun

 

[j_brown2]

You've got to learn to love yourself Mr Brown, it's a path I'm on myself.

True Iam on that path too, can't love noone or give love out if you don't love yourself

 

[j_brown2]

It all depends on how you look at it. Obviously love is very important to you. We value things based on scarcity: the more rare something is to us, the more precious it is to us. You're holding love very high on a pedestal, probably because you haven't experienced much of it.

To me, sex is just fun

Agree a 100% no love in my life atm, Iam working on it though

 

[SickJoke]

Agree a 100% no love in my life atm, Iam working on it though

It's tough man. Love is a basic human need. Without it, lots of emotional pain and messed up worldviews are expected. Hang tough and try to love yourself in the meantime.

 

[j_brown2]

Alright, never thought I would get to the bottom of this but I did, yea 0 love from my father through all my life, from my mother not much either, my brothers 0 too just pain, it's allright though I do have some self love despite all that and my SA and BDD

 

[recluse]

That's why you should only have sex with someone you love.

 

[licorice]

Sex with someone you dont care about nor love cant even come close to comparing to when its with someone you do...Unfulfilling,might as well join the animals at the zoo...

 

[Tab]

I think I know what you mean. After I'm done masturbating I sometimes feel like that, but not as strongly as you do. It used to be a lot worse when I was younger. I've always wondered how I'd react after sex though, probably never find out though