Wasn't quite sure where to throw this thread. ...
I rarely, but do try, to speak my mind. But I have fear I will cause more harm than good. My automatic response is to not release thoughts and/or emotions. I let them stew and let myself deal with it all. I don't want to cause troubles with my sometimes-social-blunder **** ups.
Allowing myself to deal with my reactions, emotions and thoughts affords me the ability to not only prevent others having to deal with it but also keeps others out of harms way (if I am feeling particularly down or frustrated).
How does one stop internalizing emotions and thoughts? It's not as easy as just don't do it that way. Why do I want to change something that has worked for years? Because I wish to be more approachable, more personable, more open to those I care about.:thumbup:
I rarely, but do try, to speak my mind. But I have fear I will cause more harm than good. My automatic response is to not release thoughts and/or emotions. I let them stew and let myself deal with it all. I don't want to cause troubles with my sometimes-social-blunder **** ups.
Allowing myself to deal with my reactions, emotions and thoughts affords me the ability to not only prevent others having to deal with it but also keeps others out of harms way (if I am feeling particularly down or frustrated).
How does one stop internalizing emotions and thoughts? It's not as easy as just don't do it that way. Why do I want to change something that has worked for years? Because I wish to be more approachable, more personable, more open to those I care about.:thumbup: