I've been in a relatioship for only 3 months now, known her for almost 6 months, first 1.5 months was great, lost my V to her and have been open with our problems.
Last few weeks, I have sunken back into another lul of confusion/anxiety/depression which is effecting my happiness at work and havent felt much interest in her like before. She has also been having her problems with her sick father and work issues as well and basicly both having issues being happy with ourselves. She is unhappy with my loss of interest and its upsetting her.
We have had just as many upsets as we have had fun lately an its starting to drive me crazy. I know that she sees a future together, but I am having trouble seeing it and dont know what to do.
We talked today, she said if we broke up, being friends is not something she could do. If I broke up with her, It would probly be years before I'd be in another relationship.
Also, I suggested we both go see our doctors, maybe see about getting anti-depressants and seeing what happens once we sort our issues out.
What do you guys think?
Thanks for listening.
Last few weeks, I have sunken back into another lul of confusion/anxiety/depression which is effecting my happiness at work and havent felt much interest in her like before. She has also been having her problems with her sick father and work issues as well and basicly both having issues being happy with ourselves. She is unhappy with my loss of interest and its upsetting her.
We have had just as many upsets as we have had fun lately an its starting to drive me crazy. I know that she sees a future together, but I am having trouble seeing it and dont know what to do.
We talked today, she said if we broke up, being friends is not something she could do. If I broke up with her, It would probly be years before I'd be in another relationship.
Also, I suggested we both go see our doctors, maybe see about getting anti-depressants and seeing what happens once we sort our issues out.
What do you guys think?
Thanks for listening.