I'm done
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Ventrilotwo
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i'm just so indifferent. I watch people, i know it's creepy by any standards but i do. I just watch them and see how they interact with eachother (mainly girls) and to be honest i say to myself "she is so attractive but i just couldn't deal with how she talks and what, or lack there-of, she has to say". And this girl was by most standards probably a fine girl that most guys would love to be with... And these "most guys" are more attractive, more kind, more socially adept, more independant, more capable, more everything than me. So why would a girl who actually has a brain want to be with me ?
Ubersonic
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It sounds like your like me. I'm 21 and have never had a gal-pal or as you've said "done anything". I think about getting a girlfriend everyday. If I had some positive reinforcement from the ladies it would boost my self esteem, but years of rejection has taken it's toll. I feel inferior to most other guys. *Sigh*.. Sorry I don't any advice to share. I'm just letting you know your not alone.
Ventrilotwo
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i hope every day when crossing the road that a car hits me.
enchantress24
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Ventrilo said:
I'll go on a date with you
enchantress24
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Ventrilotwo said:
No cars or trains. I think I would prefer to drown myself. Fast, painless, no one feeling guilty.
Angel_Of_Death
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20 ? Your still young.
How about this, spend your next 2 years working on yourself. Forget about getting a girl. You can do that when your 22-23, which is not so bad. You have the rest of your life in front of you, and you will probably live to be 80.
How do you work on yourself ?
Join a gym
Start meditation
Start therapy
You could do other things to work on yourself...but the main goal is making yourself more confident and overcoming your SA. It's possible, people have done if before you. Research this site and the web of what you can do to overcome your problems, and focus on that.
How about this, spend your next 2 years working on yourself. Forget about getting a girl. You can do that when your 22-23, which is not so bad. You have the rest of your life in front of you, and you will probably live to be 80.
How do you work on yourself ?
Join a gym
Start meditation
Start therapy
You could do other things to work on yourself...but the main goal is making yourself more confident and overcoming your SA. It's possible, people have done if before you. Research this site and the web of what you can do to overcome your problems, and focus on that.
nephatitus
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try death by carbon monoxide
close garage door
turn on car fall asleep
its that easy and painless
close garage door
turn on car fall asleep
its that easy and painless
kayelle
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You're only fuckin twenty! Holy shit, life is just beginning!
I'm 20 aswell, and every single day I appreciate the fact that I'm stuck inside with my anxiety NOW and that I haven't lived my whole life feeling depressed and awful. I can recover now, and I'll have the rest of my life to make up for what I've missed, which isn't anything I can't do in my twenties really.
It sucks that I'm not out with other people my age, meeting people, making friends, enjoying myself, but I want to get over this anxiety and I'm guna do it now, and then I have my whole life to do whatever I want, while being happy and not stressed, anxious, depressed and afraid.
How can you possibly be done when all you've lived through so far is childhood and puberty? This is where your own life starts, with you in the driving seat. Start fucking fighting for it!
Go team! :lol: :roll:
I'm 20 aswell, and every single day I appreciate the fact that I'm stuck inside with my anxiety NOW and that I haven't lived my whole life feeling depressed and awful. I can recover now, and I'll have the rest of my life to make up for what I've missed, which isn't anything I can't do in my twenties really.
It sucks that I'm not out with other people my age, meeting people, making friends, enjoying myself, but I want to get over this anxiety and I'm guna do it now, and then I have my whole life to do whatever I want, while being happy and not stressed, anxious, depressed and afraid.
How can you possibly be done when all you've lived through so far is childhood and puberty? This is where your own life starts, with you in the driving seat. Start fucking fighting for it!
Go team! :lol: :roll:
no1
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lol.. I'm about 6 months away from turning 23 and I'm thinking that's when I'm going to start feeling like I'm getting old. 23 is still young adult but... it's certainly not like the 18-21 yrs of age. 22 is like the intermediate age before 23.. and 23 is like.. I'm that much closer to the age of 30.
*sigh*
whatever. some say that 23 is when the body starts to get old (I guess slowly)...
*sigh*
whatever. some say that 23 is when the body starts to get old (I guess slowly)...
theblank
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flakeybark said:2Crowded said:
Plus the driver would probably feel guilt for the rest of his/her life. Better not to involve other people.
I've lost one close friend to suicide who jumped in front of a train and another close friend to suicide who jumped in front of truck on the 405 freeway. I do not recommend either of these things.
My friend who got hit by the truck actually survived and when I got a close up look of what was left of his body in the hospital, I nearly threw up it was so disgusting. If I did not know that it was him on the bed I never would have recognized him. His family, who loved him deeply, was around his bed crying and hoping for a miracle. Incidentally, they were the ones who had to make the decision to pull the plug on him, so not only did they have to look at his shattered, grotesquely swollen body, but they had to be the ones who actually ended his life for him. And the truck driver who hit him? He was completely devastated and has to live with the image of the impact in his mind for the rest of his life.
One of the reasons my friend killed himself was because he couldn't find a girlfriend. He was in his mid 30's and since he had no one by that age he decided life wasn't worth living. Even if he had a girlfriend, with the problems he had I doubt any relationship would have lasted long anyway. Looking back I think he would have been better off changing his way of thinking and getting the help he needed instead of throwing it all away. That way he would have better prepared himself for the things he wanted: a girlfriend, a home of his own and a successful business. But instead none of those things happened, he is dead and a lot of people are hurting because of it.
R.I.P. Eric. It was six years ago this day.
