I sincerely want to die...
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desoconnor
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I hope that you don't kill yourself...
I've considered suicide before but I'm glad I didn't go through with it, and I have friends (after years of being alone) who have tried to kill themselves and I'm glad they didn't succeed.
When you hit rock bottom, then the only way left is to head back up.
Can I ask why you think people can't put up with you?
I've considered suicide before but I'm glad I didn't go through with it, and I have friends (after years of being alone) who have tried to kill themselves and I'm glad they didn't succeed.
When you hit rock bottom, then the only way left is to head back up.
Can I ask why you think people can't put up with you?
market.garden
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Take a big long look around all the shit, starvation, war, torture and abuse that goes on in the world, then look back in the mirror. If you still feel like you are rock bottom after that then I don't know what more to say.
I hope you find a way out of this that doesn't end up with the barrel of a gun.
I hope you find a way out of this that doesn't end up with the barrel of a gun.
.Starting 30 different threads a week about how the society is ****ed up and how the world hates me and how I want to die is not feeling sorry for himself? Come on now...
We're all in the same boat here, but he's the only one who keeps complaining constantly.
I know I sound really rude, but if you need to complain all the time, keep it in one thread. Don't start a new one every single time something else comes to your mind. Please.
We're all in the same boat here, but he's the only one who keeps complaining constantly.
I know I sound really rude, but if you need to complain all the time, keep it in one thread. Don't start a new one every single time something else comes to your mind. Please.
no1
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haha you think I sleep?
besides I dont compare myself to others worse off than me.
the point is, you can deal with your problems. I can't. I am not at the same level as those much worse off than me. I feel bad for them but it doesn't make me feel any better about myself.
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Redzer
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Very Well Said
Yeah there are people in worse situations in that way, but like he said it doesn't make him feel better, life can be depressing whatever situation you're in I guess, and sometimes it helps to voice what you're feeling on the forum, because then at least you're letting something out, even if it comes across as complaining, no one has to read it and reply if they don't want to. And I don't mind the threads about how bad society can be, because I agree most of the time haha.
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Anubis
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You need to re-assess why you come to this forum. If you come here for genuine help, then challenge your assumptions more. But if you come here just to complain then just keep it all in one thread like Amon said. And I don't say that out of frustration. Having a convenient place to post your daily thoughts is a great way to get an objective perspective of your plight. Maybe after seeing all the negativity in your life all in one place, you'll get sick of it one day, and get motivated to improve.
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Agreed.
From what I remember of your threads in the last week, your assumptions about women at least need to be seriously questioned (by yourself.) There are a lot of individuals in the world. It's unfair to tarnish the world with a handful of beliefs.
I make certain assumptions too, about different things, and my psychologist told me it is important to test out my beliefs in the real world, because they are not necessarily true.
Just because their are other people in the world who you think are worse off dosn't mean they are mentally feeling any worse. I don't think a forum is going to change much, but it is good to moan about your problems to people who are actually going to listen instead of letting it fester inside your head.
I'm not feeling as bad at the moment so i can tell how easy it is to get annoyed by people complaining but when i am feeling that bad i sometimes feel it is reassuring that im not the only one.
I personally think that suicide should be more accepted and there should be a way for people to be able to do it easily and painlessly if they really want to.
I can't see people getting much genuine help on this forum other than feeling happier that they are not the only ones going through crap.
I'm not feeling as bad at the moment so i can tell how easy it is to get annoyed by people complaining but when i am feeling that bad i sometimes feel it is reassuring that im not the only one.
I personally think that suicide should be more accepted and there should be a way for people to be able to do it easily and painlessly if they really want to.
I can't see people getting much genuine help on this forum other than feeling happier that they are not the only ones going through crap.
no1
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actually...
a person who is depressed, should be able to get the proper help he/she needs without people thinking they are less than human, or diseased or even dysfunctional. The problem with much of society is the way they treat those who are "inferior". Even though they think they are doing the right things, most of the time they really aren't doing any better than keeping them where they are, or making them worse, by only reinforcing their behavior and negativity by treating them like like insane, or amoral, or diseased. People are human. When they feel bad nobody should be ridiculed. They don't have to be treated as if they are terminally ill. And that's what most of the treatments modern medicine does (at least western medicine). They treat the suicidal and depressed ones, by taking them to a psych ward, and drugging them up with pills that really don't make them any better. There are very few medicines that are actually good and they fall under natural therapy/alternative, etc. Ever tell a psychologist or psychiatrist that you feel like killing yourself sometimes? They will then look at you as if you are insane, and need to be lock away in a psych ward where you will only get worse and are given really bad drugs.
Anyone else whose simply depressed, is seen as abnormal. Anyone who doesn't fit in is sick. Depressed. Abnormal.
a person who is depressed, should be able to get the proper help he/she needs without people thinking they are less than human, or diseased or even dysfunctional. The problem with much of society is the way they treat those who are "inferior". Even though they think they are doing the right things, most of the time they really aren't doing any better than keeping them where they are, or making them worse, by only reinforcing their behavior and negativity by treating them like like insane, or amoral, or diseased. People are human. When they feel bad nobody should be ridiculed. They don't have to be treated as if they are terminally ill. And that's what most of the treatments modern medicine does (at least western medicine). They treat the suicidal and depressed ones, by taking them to a psych ward, and drugging them up with pills that really don't make them any better. There are very few medicines that are actually good and they fall under natural therapy/alternative, etc. Ever tell a psychologist or psychiatrist that you feel like killing yourself sometimes? They will then look at you as if you are insane, and need to be lock away in a psych ward where you will only get worse and are given really bad drugs.
Anyone else whose simply depressed, is seen as abnormal. Anyone who doesn't fit in is sick. Depressed. Abnormal.
iamthenra
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I feel your pain. I understand what you are saying, about wanting to rid yourself of this "pain" you feel. I understand why you would say such things repeatedly over and over... Because this feeling that you have is cyclic, and you bottom out at the end of this cycle you are going through. Am I right? I also go through this "cycle" as I am sure that there are also others who go through this same thing too. I am truly sorry that you are feeling bad, bad about you, bad about society, bad about the world. When morning light comes, hopefully this feeling will pass.
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k well people on here are being too harsh too you man, but theyre right, there are many who never get a fair shot at life....you arent one of em....what theyre saying is if you dig deep youll realize that you have the resources and skills to get over this....anyone that has food to eat and a place to stay has the ability to make themselves happier...and it starts with believing you can. so sitting here talking about how you cant makes people angry because they know that its in you,....you just choose not to believe that
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