I saw a 5 year old fall out of a window and I....

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Doomed2Die

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Sorry no. It's like asking someone who has a very real and very large consuming phobia of snakes to go hug a king cobra, even then thats a meek comparison.

SA/SP can be that serious, is that serious for some at times. Clearly.
 

Sacrament

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Wtf? You don't know anything about my life, and stop fishing for attention. Do you want me to play a tiny violin for you?

I hope you do feel horrible about it, because you really should. There is obviously more going on than just social anxiety when you can walk away from a child who fell from a second story building [Who could have easily died] and people trying to use social anxiety as some kind of excuse for not helping in that situation makes me sick...

edit: Get some help for you problems, its hard but it has to be done.

Tough love, but this is true. This would have been a great way to improve regarding your condition and you let it slip by.
 

Elad

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Sorry no. It's like asking someone who has a very real and very large consuming phobia of snakes to go hug a king cobra, even then thats a meek comparison.

SA/SP can be that serious, is that serious for some at times. Clearly.

Well he needs to stop using social anxiety as the fall guy. Social anxiety doesn't take over your legs and force you to run away against your will, you are your own person, you are not social anxiety. You make the decision to listen to your anxiety or go against it, so throwing all the blame on SA and not taking any responsibility for your actions or lack of actions is ridiculous.
 

j_brown2

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Oh god you all make me feel sick. like something seriously is wrong with me. Thank you for being so nice elad. I do know your social anxiety isnt bad at all, just in certain situations - you told me that remember?
 

Elad

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Oh god you all make me feel sick. like something seriously is wrong with me. Thank you for being so nice elad. I do know your social anxiety isnt bad at all, just in certain situations - you told me that remember?

You want to come and read sugar coated posts about how its not your fault and social anxiety sucks?

Or do you want to face your anxiety and listen to some real replies to get help?
 

j_brown2

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i had no problems with any reply but yours. WHat the ****? i dont like suger coating. who said i dont feel bad??? i do, i feel bad coz i couldnt do more. i even thought of what i would do rather next time in a situation like this or that i never leave the house till iam over SA coz it was so bad what i did.

Your all makin me shake, especially you elad,
 
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Elad

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i had no problems with any reply but yours. WHat the ****? i dont like suger coating

Because I don't sugar coat it, the response I gave you is what most people would think but wouldn't post.

What kind of replies were you expecting when you posted this thread? Did you want everyone to feel sorry for you and tell you its social anxieties fault? :confused:
 

j_brown2

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didnt i say it in a previous post??? Post number 16.,

most people without SA yea, would say this.

are you all guys takin meds who think its that easy? Iam getting anxious and panick attacks over internet comments and i should be able to help a baby in need?
 
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Elad

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Well you need the views of people in the real world, not just the warped views from people in social phobia world.

I'm not saying its easy, I'm saying you have a choice in what you do and don't do because your name is j_brown, not Social Anxiety.

I think you need to take a break from this website, because honestly its not healthy to be stuck in the bubble of thinking what people say on these boards is the norm.
 

bcguitar

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Hey

Honestly I don't know what I would have done in that situation either , everybody makes there mistakes .. I don't think your a sociapath at all and you seem to feel real bad about it and atleast you told someone about it.. all in all the parents should be to blame the most cause they obviously are the ones that are ****ed up and dont know how to take care of their kid.

i agree that you should go see a therapist cause you obviously have problems like alot of us on here .. but i don't think you should be judged so harshly for this.
 
How annoying

This thread is like really annoying me... Especially all the responses, I can't believe so many people are like "awwwhs I feel so bad for YOU". It's not any excuse. I am in the same line as doyle and floss here, and I can't believe that so many people think they can use it as an excuse for everything. Annoying.
 

j_brown2

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i dont like people who are sorry for me, i rather have people who are critical but in a motivating way - not someone who talks down to me. Iam not as stupid as it might seem on here.

Iam not lookin for validation of my actions. i have a mind of my own, i posted this coz i felt mad and had to let it out yesterday night,and see what other peoples opinion are on this, it doesnt change a thing if everyone would say "oh no you have SA, sa made you do it, its fine" of course i would still feel horrible for what i did. I just get defensive when someone tries to talk down to me, coz i feel like no matter what i do, do i help do i not help i will do it wrong and people will put me down. I did fear though what i did was horrible and maybe all of you will tell me iam an animal, that would change things.

ah iam so confused i dont even know why i did it. To get beat down??? so i can feel bad again, i feel trapped and theres no way out of this. Alright iam a sick sociopath, i ****in didnt care if the child lives or dies. So what? iam sick of all people and society. I cant stand anyone.

Iam not gonna listen to all this shit and all you. feel down, depressed and worthless again. **** you all. Iam gone. The only advice iam gona take from this, is i need to get of this ****in site!!

Edit: I tried to get off here a 100 times, and no I still can't go, even if you all think Iam sick and hate me I can't go for some reason
 
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Richey

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Yeah its really odd because even though i am quiet the times i've been needed in public i managed to just react out of care and the situation becoming bigger then my problems. some years ago an old lady fell off her buggy and couldn't move so the initial reaction was to help her up and that's what i did and she was so thankful that i was around to lift her back up. What's the worst that could happen? She tells you to sod off and leave her alone? which is highly unlikely.

One time there was a large piece of sheet metal laid on the road blocking two lanes and all the cars were driving around it so i parked in a side street then ran out signaling the traffic to stop and lifted it off the road, i couldn't believe that people would just keep driving past it.

i stayed with a man who had a seizure and waited for the ambulance just recently as well, i had to keep him still, it wasnt a pretty sight at all but it had to be done.

What if that was you who really needed help in public? you'd want someone to help out, that's the mindset you have to adopt in emergencies, i'm sure your reaction to not help was out of panic but you need to learn from that in the future.
 

j_brown2

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Right, you would snap out of SA, pop a pill and help. Someone else would tell himself a coping statement he learned, someone who has a severe SA would go there despite panicking hard, feel like his eyes are popping out, with a ****ed up vision and mind, cant even coordinate his body and movement, but still he would do it and provide awsome help. Another one would call an ambulance. The ambulance would understand every word he said clearly and know exactly where to go.

But me the sociopath who clearly does have other issues than SA didn't give a ****

Iam a little bitch who can't take blame, responsibilty... I can't do anything, Iam worthless. I shouldn't even say this, Iam not supposed to say stuff like this, coz it's wrong. Iam supposed to be normal and help people. **** you all.

Oh I forgot Iam also a baby, and attention seeking, which is not acceptable again

Can someone permanently ban me please?
 
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j_brown2

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I came to the conclusion I was seeking acceptance, someone to understand my actions, Someone to cry too, which I failed at.
 

Walk

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I can't much say much. I can't relate to SA of THAT level.

On the brighter side, at least you felt bad afterward.... um, but yeah, you need help, cuz that's the most severe case of SA I've ever read.

I once saw a stumbling old man not be able to stand up in a fast food restaurant, and I was the only one who helped him! People walked right past him, unreal.
 

Rise Against

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Hey Elad, i understand what your saying but i dont think its helping him... its probably making it worst. J brown2 I honestly wouldn't blame you for what you did... i mean its a disorder. That would be like trying to force me to read a book in a day (i have severe ADD). It just isn't possible. But the good thing about SAD is that it can be overcome, hopefully that event will help you find the courage to seek help.
 

Rise Against

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I honestly dont know what i would do in that situation either. I think that i would help but i really dont know how i would react unless i was in that situation.
 
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j_brown2

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The title is a bit misleading, but like it's gona change a thing about what I should do. I didn't see the kid fall down if I would than I would know if it was his mother that threw him out or not. I got out at 9pm to go for a run, I heard a child crieing which already made me anxious coz I suspected there are people outside, I go down the street 2 houses from mine I saw the child alone lieing there and crieing, it creeped me out. Emotionless, questions, confusion, child alone at 9pm outside the house crieing hard! Alarm!wtf could have happened,I didn't want to get involved coz of my panic and fears of uncertainty, see windows open, which is normal coz it's summer here, no other explanation than the child fall out the window, why would he be there at 9 in front of the house lieing and crieing. He was on his knees and hands moving a bit around. so straight avoidance, didnt know what to do,it all seemed unreal, went onto the other side of the street quick, headphones on so I appear like I didn't hear, walk down, another 3 houses till I barely hear it and a strong need to get help came to my mind, went the other way home quick, got my mother out. It's a very close neighbouthood like houses are next to each other within 2 meters space.

That's what happened. Iam totally confused and don't know if it changes a thing. Did I do this to cause a conflict on here I don't know. I have a tendency to be self destructive. I do believe thinkin of it now it does change, if I saw it falling out the window with my own eyes I probably would turn right back and get my mother, not walk past and question what is going on

Iam a ****in big idiot.

My mother got their, I went behind her waited in the dark on the street, she came back to me and said they don't wanna call an ambulance, they say he is fine and said he must have fell out when he was alone in his room
 
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